This weeks update comes in a new avatar. Because while I was writing, I realised that I invest a lot of time in formatting. And the world we live in, the AI enabled one, we dont really need formatting and structure. We can lean onto AI for that.
I am in SG this week and unlike other times when I am a mere tourist for a few days (or I have agenda), this time I am living like a local. With a friend.
And here are some unfiltered observations.
a. There are a very few coffee shops with charging points. And that means I cant sit at a place for too long (the laptop I have runs out in like 4 hours). And this means that my work productivity is taking a hit. And this means that my general happiness levels are low. And that means I am not a great company.
I dont know how to fix this. I mean I know that my general happiness and wellbeing is in always being on the intellectual treadmill. And wihout a laptop, I am unable to be on one. I tried with an ipad and a phone and it didnt cut.
So, yeah. The city’s not made for remote workers. Like me. Unless I choose to get myself an office space. But then I dont want to have one specific location that I go to.
b. People in Singapore love to queue up. Which is a good thing. After all, large-scale functioning societies must have some sort of order.
But then there’s me. Who’s spent all his life avoiding queues. If I see a traffic light doing a countdown from 7 seconds to 0 and I am just 10 steps away from it, I will not run to catch it. If I see a bus that I need to catch pulling away, I will give up on it. If I am chasing a member of opposite gender for romantic interests, if they act pricy, I distract myself with some Taarak Mehta.
The other day, my niece queued up for 30 minutes to get a frozen yogurt. I dont get the sense. I refuse to believe that it could taste so good that I invest 30 minutes of my life in it. Take Benne for example. Long queues. But not my jam. Never been to one, even though they are growing like mushrooms.
So, this lot of order, lot of queues is nice but not for me.
In fact, I’d say that Singapore feels like a school for adults. People are easy going. Shorts are ok. No one bothers you. There’s safety, order, cleanliness, structure and all that. Like a good school. And a fab campus with gardens, pools etc. Made for adults. Not for me.
PS: I was also finally able to articulate that I want to live away from India but I will never be a Non-Indian. I wont be able to cut ice with non Indians. Some people have the charm to do that. Not me.
So, the business to think of would be to serve Indians around the world.
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2/ The last 1000 things
I saw this on X while I was doomscrolling yesterday (sad in the head about how I am holed in a room without a Starbucks / coworking space to go to).
And then I read it and I realised that this 1000 is a great thing to look upto.
And as soon as I read this, I got up from the bed and walked to this coffee shop to write this.
Inspired by this, I will start today for a SG of three years from hence.
I tried to be the coolest 30-year-old and failed. I then tried to be the coolest 35-year-old and failed again. At 40, I wasnt the coolest 40-year-old. I will be 45 soon and unless something superhuman happens, I wont be the coolest.
But if I start today, I would have the shot at being the coolest 50-year-old. And let’s gun for that.
I dont track news at a lot of places but the limited ones that come to my feed (Paris, Riyadh, CJP in large part of india, St Petersberg, Kolkata, Thailand et al), all seem to be going thru some sort of crisis. And then there are places in Africa and South American and deep in Europe that I dont even know about that seem to have their own crisis.
I dont know what’s the problem of this world!
There are days when I think hard and I want to fix the world and there are days when I think I should stick to my lane and fix my house first and not think about others.
4/ Hiring
All of us know that I am trying to hire people at C4E. And I am failing at it. From my this week’s experiments, I want to talk about three things.
a. I wanted to hire a quasi-CEO, sort of partner to myself to help with C4E.
I met many and almost shortlisted one. Got him to meet my people. And then we couldnt get him on board. We are way too married to our cult (not culture) that we have a had time accepting more people in our fold.
b. I have been trying to look for a SEO person to manage a client and I’ve failed at it. Please help!
c. I tried to help a friend person out of goodwill and we couldnt come to agree to terms.
And then he talked to me in an impolite tone and manner. And then I lost it. I am done with him. And done with offering myself up with with needless kindness. I want to help people and want to make this world into a utopian, good place but I think I need to reconsider it.
Not just him but a social media butterfly asked me to help her with some random RT and all that. And I lost it when I was told that I am creating “drama” and “not on paid roster” and all that. I must write a note on how (and why) my words are not for sale. And how I will judge each person that participates in this engineered virality. And how I need to be shameless about marketing. In fact, this deserves another section of its own.
One of the most important lessons of this year has to be that I need to learn how to accept compliments. And market myself.
Thank to Dr H, I am ok with accepting compliments. But I am still far from my ability to market myself. In fact, tweets after tweets last few days made me realise my mistake.
Here are some…
You can spend 5 years, working harder than anyone else, writing the best book in the world, but if nobody knows about it, then you will not be a successful author.
This is the downfall of most creatives. They hate marketing, but marketing is 80% of their success.
Now, I come from that school of thought that if I am worth 10, I need to say that it’s 1. And then the world around me operates in “make it till you fake it” and if they are worth 10, they say 100.
So I am surrounded by folks who toot their horn each time they get up from their bed and all that. And I am the kinds who would not talk about it even if I won a Nobel / Oscar / whatever is the epitome of recognition.
I know, I know. I need balance. I need to own my wins and acknowledge my losses. But I am unable to talk about myself with words that at even a hint of hyperbole.
I dont know the solution on this.
I think, if I am able to abstract my work from my personality, I should be ok. Lets see.
From what I can understand and comprehend this tweet, to be able to operate AI with its 100% power, you need to have a the ability of handling large cognitive loads. You may not be busier just in terms of time but also in terms of how much brain you need to use. Since I’ve gone Max on AI, I can feel that my brain has expanded a 100 times, if not more. I have way too many threads and way too many ideas in my head that I am unable to sit still.
In fact, I think this is the place where a generalist and the multitasker may do well. Where you can switch context fast. And deep work is done in partnership with AI.
Wait.
Before I shill my generalist brain, I have a tiny comment.
I know that as a society it would make us go back eons. I mean unless there were folks willing to be on the edge and do more than what life offered, we would still be in caves. Plus the value of doing 10000 dedicated reps to build your muscle for something will be even more. I mean we have these millions of people who cant write one line to save their line or express themselves. Even for their anger and anguish, they need to lean on to AI. And if you told them to make a coherent argument for or against a notion, you would see them struggle.
Coming back. If you are able to keep many things in your head and context switch and lean on to AI for doing things, you could actually have a great life.
Brings me to the next point. Great life.
7/ What makes for a great life?
I’ve been thinking a lot about what makes a great life. Especially at 44 when I dont have a lot to show for how I’ve lived.
To think of a great life, you could look at it from following lenses (and each in isolation).
a. There are these worldly things that you could want to own, you know, cars, houses, crypto assets, reputation, distribution and all that. And each time I think of that, I am reminded of Pale Blue Dot. And then I think about things that the likes of Steve and Elon do. You know, mad scientists? Again, deep down, I am probably not there. While I am ambitious person and want to make a dent and help the world become better and all that, I dont think I have that streak of madness in me.
b. Then there could be a thing about a great family, friends and community. You know, the one that you build (and not inherit) with deliberate effort. That you provide for. That provides for you. That allows you to be you.
No, I dont have a family per se. I dont have a lot of friends either. I do have many acquaintances and many communities. So I think am better here than work.
c. There’s talks about a great life where you have some meaning and purpose. I do have one. And no its not very differentiated from what others may have. And that’s ok. While we are unique as individuals, the uniqueness ends at that.
In terms of my purpose, I aspire to be that person who helps you see more and do more. And I am around when you’re in a soup. I know this is not really Ikigai material but I am ok there. In fact I often pay from my pocket and time bank to help others.
In terms of work, what I do doesnt add a lot to anyone to be honest. Except giving me the freedom of time. For example, I am reasonably free. I control a large part of my time. I am able to do a lot of experiments that need me to be available and invest effort, money and time. And I can do those with a reasonable degree of freedom, choice and agency.
d. Then a great life could be about your ability to chase you interests, hobbies and passions. As a person, I am not particularly passionate about a lot of things. I dont care for food, travel, events, experiences and all that. But I am passionate about people. I love when I see people create magic. I love when am able to push them out of comfort zone. On this one, I think am good. I’ve had many people who’s life got just a tiny bit better because I was in it.
Apart from these 4, the other things that we generally think about when we want to talk about a great life is health, money and faith (religion). Funnily in my case, when I was reading about great life, these three things didnt even cross my mind.
Lemme write a line about each.
Health. I am not doing well in this one. I am diabetic. I have inflammatory diseases. Hernia. And more. I need to probably work on this to be able to have a great life.
Faith / Religion. I grew up a Hindu and a lot of my lessons and mental composition come from Mahabharata and Ramayana. Plus I grew up in Delhi and a lot of my thinking is as Indian as it comes. And despite this, I dont identify with any religion anymore.
Money. Lol. This is the grease that moves the world. I am of a firm belief that having money may not give you happiness but lack of it will 100% make you unhappy. In my case, not one of my conversations is about money. Maybe because I’ve assumed that I will get when I want it?
Ok, this became an exercise in soul searching. Felt ok after I did this. I don’t like it that am not large or whatever but I am otherwise mostly ok in how I live.
Phew.
Ok, so I seem to have an ok life. I’ve may be even had a micro-win at it. But there’s one thing I’ve failed with. And that too something that I hold close to my heart.
Marketing.
8/ My failure as a marketer
So, I am on a 100-day sprint to write 100 posts (one each day) on linkedin. And today’s day 4. Over the last 3 days my words have been seen by like 20 people. And I am sure 15 of those, I know them already.
I am told that my content is tough to read (I dont agree but numbers dont agree with me). I am told that I dont cause any controversy (I dont want to do it for sake of creating controversy). I am told that my words are shit (I was always told that I wrote well, despite my grammar snafu).
But my attempt at marketing myself dont seem to work.
In fact, I am thinking that I am a failure with this entire distribution lead modern marketing. I can see what seems to be working (mid things by celebesque people wanting to shill things for affiliate links) but I cant seem to get to do those things by myself. Neither do I have the energy to DM people and ask them to post about me. And I definitely will not want to put my fam and friends on the internet in hopes of getting some clicks.
So that.
9/ Failed to get to 5K AED
Another failure is my attempts at getting to 5K AED from Dubai.
One of my large goals was to get to 5K AED before 15th Oct. I did make some attempts but I was unable to move the outcome.
In fact, this has been a recurring theme this year. Since I decided to get back to active work, I’ve chased many ideas but I havent been able to put my finger onto one and do it. I havent been able to spot such a large opportunity that I am excited to my bones about it.
I dont know a solution to this. I’ve tried everything. Coaches, OKRs, Claude artefacts as TDLs, accountability buddies and all that. And nothing has worked. I have to find a solution to this for sure.
10/ The Focus for October
This is one of the few sections am retaining.
We are on the last-third of Oct and I have these three tasks.
Book 2. I picked the fragments of what I call book2. I will work on it over the next few days. I will work on this in a sprint this week. Let’s see where we reach.
A portfolio of bets. Stop forcing one focus. No action. But thanks to Claude and WonderKid, I’ve done a lot. In fact, I may take a more active interest in Yellow. While I may not understand women’s health but I do know about business.
40 pushups in one go. I am pretty confident on this one. I am at 20. I plan to do 25 tomorrow. Let’s see.
So, this is it.
Lemme know what you think of this new format.
PS: This series of posts is inspired by Thej and his weekly notes.
Notes, thoughts and highlights from Week 41, 2026.
10 Oct 2026 Starbucks Versova
Started this on the 4th of Oct. Continued on the 5th. And then on the 9th and now I am on the 11th and still not able to get this out. Sigh.
So, I am writing this after a while. And I can feel the rustiness in my brain and on my keyboard. The muscle seems to have atrophied. TBH, I dont know what to write. I have lot of thoughts but there is no coherence, no structure, no thought to those. I can ramble on but I dont know what to exclude.
In fact, I am questioning and I am thinking, I dont know why I write these in the first place (except keeping a running log of my life and getting to my catharsis by giving myself a break and finding some mental balance). Not many people read this. And if they do, they dont tell me.
PS: I dont think I write for people. I do write for serendipity and expansion of my luck surface area. o that.
As I sit here on the 5th6th9th 11th of October, trying to think of things from the 3 4weeks gone by, I remember very few things. I mean I do remember a lot and I have a lot to say but the words fail me. And the things I remember are not necessarily good emotions or bad emotions. I must have been angry at some point but I dont remember it. I was scared at some time but I dont remember why. All I have is this blur of ideas and incidents.
Does this mean I have attained nirvana? Does this mean I am no longer human? Does this mean I’ve lost the capacity for experiencing large emotions?
I dont even remember large events that happened around me in the last few days. I remember reading about the FlyDubai incident, CJP protests, some Asian or Commonwealth games where Indian Cricket Team won the Gold (don’t know what else did we win), Instinct raising 10 billion dollars (or valuation), Open AI’s Dots, US-Iraq thing.
Most of these are geopolitical events, “current affairs”, sports. And while I am updated about these, I am not deeply interested in these. I dont know if I should be. May be I should be?
I could be interested in things that are closer home – you know, hygiene in Mumbai, the attempt to move to Dubai, work I do, people I care for and all that. But again, I dont see the point of it, if in the end all that we do id meaningless. Or may be your life and your attempt and giving people meaning itself is an act of meaning?
Anyhow. I am rambling.
In this edition, unaided, I want to talk about…
Of course AI. And all the tokens I burn.
Dubai trip.
19.520 pushups.
Travel being the new normal for me, at least for the next one year.
Me being more social. Someone even asked me if I’ve picked up some MLM scheme that I want to shill.
My failure with a founder as his storytelling coach.
Finally, the large question that I want to tackle. A close friend asked me what’s rich for you. My answer (ownership of time) didnt cut with her. And thus the question for all of you. What’s your definition of being rich?
So, with that long context, let’s go with the weekly review.
Oh wait.
The track of the week this version of Mera Mann. And this one by a Youtuber.
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Highlights, reflections, updates, notes and thoughts from the week gone by.
1/ The October Focus
I start each review with the public plan for the month. The one for September was empty. 10 days of October has gone past already. And then I am in Singapore for about 10 days. I will be out and about and may not have too much time to do things.
Nonetheless, the plan for October is as follows…
Book 2 ;P. I plan to make this my primary thing for the Singapore trip. Aided by Claude, of course. I figured, I can take advantage of the break / trip and invest my time and energy in working on this book. Let’s see if I find a place to sit and write while I am in Singapore.
Life plan. I have struggled to figure what to focus on for work. I’ve tried it for 6 months and I’ve had many ideas but I havent been able to stick to any, or make any of those work. I think I will give up on that. And now I will build a portfolio of bets (which I already have, lol). I will do all things that I want to work on. Lets see how that goes. The only thing is that I will stop thinking about focussing and doing one thing.
Get to 40 pushups on a trot without getting a heart attack 😀
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2/ Claude and my voice
I had trained Claude with my voice. I gave it my emails, blogs, WA chats and other things. And then I told Claude to learn how I write and then write some. And then I gave it feedback till it started to write like me. It was great for a while. A lot of my mails went via Claude and no one felt any difference.
But somewhere along the way, it broke.
The things it was writing for me? Well, was shit.
To a point that I had to re-write almost everything that it was writing for me. So, I need to revisit it.
Btw, this is a pattern I’ve noticed with Claude. Things keep breaking. I had a made a CRM for myself and I was very happy with it for a few days. And then one fine day it stopped working. Then I made a WA tool that tracks my WA chats and tells me what to work on. And then it broke.
Dont get me wrong. The tools worked well. It ran thru logic, rendered correctly, did everything expected. But the piping I was doing to have the data get read from my laptop, that broke! I think that was to do with my laptop not being on 24×7. Maybe that’s why the Mac Mini revolution happened?
Wait. Why am I talking about here? No clue. If I had an editor, they would chop this out 😀
Moving on…
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3/ Hiring at C4E
I’ve realised that I need people to scale things. After all, people create magic. I can never be a fully autonomous company. And while I need people, I need them to think of things from the lens that I have. I need them to have all the values that I hold true. And I want them to live with my whims and quirks.
Anyhow. So I put a post out. That I need someone to stand next to me and help me. Met some 10 people. None so far is a hell yeah. Some are “nice”.
Here’s a set of feedback and thoughts…
Hiring is tougher than anything else I’ve ever done. Especially because I cant pay a lot.
People dont want to work at all. Most people I met seek “balance”. And when I ask them what does this balance looks like, they have no answers. Except, “time for self” and “chilling”. Of all the people I met, just two of those were willing to work hard.
People are poor with followups. If I could teach people one thing and one thing only, I’d say, the art of followups. Of the people I met, just one person is GREAT with followups.
Everyone has so much happening in their lives that it’s literally impossible to expect them to give their all-in to something that’s not their dream. Unless what you dream of and what they dream of are in sync.
People dont read. People are not into specifics. They have poor attention to detail. Many people claimed to have stalked C4E but not one recalled or remembered things. TBH this says a lot about me than it says about them.
People have an overinflated sense of self. Which is good for them but I am not a fan. Maybe cos I dont have it.
More reflections on this as I talk to more people.
The biggest lesson for me is that I must reach more people. So that I have a larger TOFU and some of that trickles down to me.
PS: Also see #8 below.
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4/ Founder Brand and Storytelling
Last time I wrote this piece, I talked about how excited I was about building a founder storytelling practise. I also dumped all I know about it on a few blogposts. And I did get some leads.
One was very promising. And I spent a lot of time with that founder to see if I was a good fit for him to help him build his founder brand.
And he chose to not go ahead with me.
And I am sad about it. To a point that I dont know how to express it. I gave it all but it wasnt good enough for him. So that.
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5/ Dubai
I spent about 15 days in Dubai. Give or take a few. This time I wanted to live like a local (I didnt) and find things that I could do there, to be able to live there (I didnt).
The trip was, well, interesting. I met a lot of people. Each seemed to have their version of Dubai. I agreed to some versions. I didnt agree to others. I need to sit and figure what version of the stories am I gonna hold close and live with.
I know that I want to live in Dubai for a few months. And I have given myself a target go earn 5K AED by 15th Oct. On that, we have 10 5 days to go. Zero clarity on where it will come from.
Here are some other observations about Dubai…
Dubai is all about transactions. People meet. People talk. People think. But at the end of it, everyone seeks a transaction. Even close friends. And the ones you know of before they move to Dubai also become transactional.
People are there to make money. Nothing wrong with it. Why would you leave your home and live at a place far far away? And to make money, they do multiple jobs (could work for someone like me with no focus). And yet they need you to lead with one specific thing. I want to build a startup and at the same time, write for founders. Since startups, I write essays. And since I am a well-connected man, I want to help others. So I have a lot to talk. But not one lane.
People are dressed impeccably. I am told London is fashionable. Dubai is probably better than that.
I didnt enjoy the weather. But people are mostly ok with it. Maybe it will be nice in Dec.
The city is incredibly safe. And is very walkable.
Things are expensive. Coffee is like 25 AED. The city is great if you make 50K AED each month. But less than that, its gonna pinch you.
You need to know people to be able to make things move.
Oh, the ghosting nature is correct. You really have to be valuable to people.
Brown skin is a tax.
Everyone is busy in their lives – kids, family, social etc etc
When I was there (in Sep and Oct), the traffic was back and so were the jams
Oh, while I was in Dubai, I got really bored after a few days and wanted to get things done. In fact that’s been my state for a long time now. I really want to apply myself to something. I know I cant do one thing for too long. I thus need to find projects. Something that I can do for a week or so and then rest for a week and then get back to work.
So that.
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6/ 19.5 pushups
I did 19.5 push ups day before a few days ago. I am stoked. I have never been the gym / workout kinds. And this gives me validation and I am happy.
Vikram tells me that its an achievement to do 20. I dont get his motivation. He can do 100 and he’s celebrating my not even 20!
PS: I did 20 on Friday. Did nothing on Sat or Sun. Let’s see how’s Monday.
PPS: I hope I can get to a 100. And then do a push-up faceoff with Vikram. And then hopefully, the human flag!
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7/ Travel
From what I know, over the next 3 months or so, travel will the new normal for me and I need to build my life around it. For such large things, I try to think about it a few times, talk about it loud to a few people and then starts to dawn onto me slowly. So that.
This means workout / yoga / gym / writing / blogging etc all needs to happen with the constraints of flights and cabs and trains and hotels and hostels and shared houses.
In fact, I dont think i’ll have a home for the next one year. I want to mentally prepare myself for that.
Over the next few week, ill be in Singapore and Delhi. With tiny trips to Mumbai.
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8/ Epiphany with work
I realised that I need someone to work alongside. And my ADHD brain needs someone to lean on to for getting things done. Over time I’ve had people who would do that for me. With time they’ve moved on, drifted apart, grown up and in general not around. And I am unable to offer time, money, brand, validation or anything that people seek.
So, I need to do the hard thing and find more people to be around me. Who are as dedicated with work and for them life is more than watching F1 or whatever.
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9/ Vv
Found a new young colleague – i have a good feeling about her. She has been helping me do things with Claude. I love her brilliance. And I hate her unavailability. I wish more of her time overlapped with me.
V, if you are reading this, you know the action points ;P
PS: I dont want to get ahead of myself. I’ve had many people but few have stuck.
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10/ Social / Pseudosocial
I’ve been very social lately. This is very unlike me.
Someone even asked me if I’ve picked up some MLM scheme that I want to shill. In the last few days I’ve been more dinners and all of those at fancy places that typically need you to think about what to wear and all that.
In fact, I wore pants for one of those places. And the others are the kinds where people go for specific occasions.
No, I dont enjoy these places. Just that I am forced to. And thus I need to be social. I am actually being what I call, Pseudosocial.
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11/ Work
Many things to note. Here’s a list.
Am easy on the cash flow, for a change. Got some big fat advance. So I can breathe easy. Honestly, this is a nice feeling. I wish I had more of such days.
Made a few new pitches. Not sure of the outcome yet. But I did make pitches. Unlike the last few months. I want to do more of these.
Lost direction and motivation with both 66MGRoad and Atlas. While writing, I realised that I am the kinds to not see things thru if I dont have someone leading it. And thus the want to hire someone to help me.
Finished and initiated a new biography project. So, sgwashere is going ok.
Fired a CA. Hired a new one. Books for the last FY C4E are closed. Finally. Now to wait for the tax refund 😀
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📷 Photos from the week gone by
I took some. As always, available on request.
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📈 The trackers of life
No tracker updated last few weeks. I did get back to filling some. So when I do the next week’s review, I will have something to show for.
Book2 / Caravan Serai. No movement. I will probably strike this off if I cant do this in the Singapore stint.
Human Flag Pole. No update. Except the 20 pushups.
Save a million dollars. No update. Cash moved in and out. Nothing moved toward the goal.
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📌 So, what did I get done last few weeks? And what will I do next week?
Health. Sleep, food, movement. Sleep hasnt been the best since Dubai. Even in Dubai, the sleep was screwed. I think its all the food that I am eating that I shouldnt. I had imagined that eating well should be possible once you are on the road. But no, I was wrong. No action on movement. I tried to get in 10K steps but I’ve failed.
C4E / Work. Got a couple of new small clients. Made a few pitches. Tried to hire people. So, I’d say some movement. I still dont know where I will be headed. I am oscillating between startup ideas, events, Claude-enabled businesses and other things.
Brand SG / Distribution. Nothing large.
People. Talked to many many people in Dubai. And I’ve been incredibly social lately.
Book2. Lol.
Shauk. Nothing tbh.
🏃➡️ Health
No log this week. Just the pushups.
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🗓️ So, one thing that defines the past week?
Itch.
I am itching to do something. I am done with these small things and I dont know what’s the large thing I can do. I’ve thought about it. I have talked about it. But nothing seems to be moving! Sigh!
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The other words for this year have been: Uncertainty, Busy, Skip, Routine, Routine, Getting Back, Freedom, People, Motion, Show, Flow, Excitement, Embarrassment, Blur, Whiling, Movement, Activity, Regular, Easy, Journey, Downtime, Same, Drift, Routine, Busy.
So that.
Over and out. Until next week. SG
PS: This series of posts is inspired by Thej and his weekly notes. Previous editions from 2026 are: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 (missed these three), 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 (missed), 26, 27, 28, 29 (missed these three), 30, 31, 32, 33 (missed), 34, 35 (missed), 36, 37, 38, 39, 40 (missed these four)
PPS: Please do point typos.
PPPS: In case you see me being inconsistent in anything – work, writing, reviews etc, PLEASE do point out.
I am here since a couple of days. And this trip so far has been nothing to write home about. While I am writing this, I am reading what Claude wrote for me and it’s incredible how much it knows about this trip. For example, it wrote this line… “The bags are in the room. The Niyo cards are still not topped up and the travel adapter i was supposed to buy in Mumbai is sitting in a shop in Mumbai.” And somehow it knows that I was to add money in my Niyo cards and buy a travel adapter.
Anyhow. I am here. And let’s see how this trip goes.
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Highlights, reflections, updates, notes and thoughts from the week gone by.
1/ The September Focus
The plan for September remains empty.
Think of this as the month where I took a break and did nothing. And thought about what to do next. Let’s park it at that. Think of it as break season for me. And of course, like most things, even when I take a break, I want to work on things. And I am indeed working on things. These things may not be structured per se in terms of client outcomes but in terms of exploration and all. Like right now, Claude is churning out websites for a few projects that I am excited about.
2/ Dubai
Claude tells me that this is my fourth trip here. I have no way to check. But I was to say that I’ve been here more times than this. And I dont have energy or inclination to check. So lets live with that.
So, while I am moving around and meeting people, I am in the Marina area and I quite like it here. Very modern. Very structured. Has easy access to a water body (a canal). Wish it was close to a beach as well (there’s JBR but thats very commercial for my taste; some part of this post is from a Starbucks outlet here). I can totally see myself living here. Just that like Akshay told me, this is an expensive place to be poor in. I mean I am not poor per se but I am not rich either. Definitely not from Dubai standards. And it’s way too hot for my taste. It’s September and 8:30 in the night and the air is still stuffy. Maybe I spend only the winter months here?
Anyhow. It’s just been a couple of days and a lot of thoughts. I will write them sometime. Maybe on this post itself when I get to that.
3/ Founder Storytelling Coaching
Spotted a tweet where a founder seems to be seeking services of a storytelling coach. I thought it would be an interesting problem to solve. The founder wants to get better at telling his own story, and he is right that it is the thing standing between him and the rooms he wants to walk into.
So I reached out to him and we got talking. And things are now at a place where we will do a pilot. And got me thinking. That it’s a large enough problem to work on and it fits into my thinking about being useful and being there when you are stuck (and not being there when you are happy or sad; must write this piece somewhere). Need to think more on this.
Oh, I wrote this piece while thinking about that project.
In case you know folks who need help with their founder stories and personal brand for founders, please do tell me.
4/ Focus. Focus. Focus.
In one of the chats in Dubai (with Pritam), I realised yet again that I need to be able to focus on one thing; in case I want large outcomes. If I continue to be a mild success, I can do that well. But in case I need to a wild one, I have to be able to focus on one thing.
I’ve tried hard to be focussed on one thing but I’ve failed miserably at it. I’ve tried hard to stop doing things but that makes unhappy. I’ve wanted to cut off things that dont give me immediate value and don’t allow me to play to win. Even those dont take me where I want to be.
So, I need to find a way to get focussed in life.
I know I am not a big fan of specialization but I think I am coming around to the fact that I need to pick a lane and stick to it. And then while I am on it, I need to figure what could be the way to find my hobbies.
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5/ Strong opinions. Loosely held.
Over the last few days, I’ve been thinking a lot about things. And a lot of my strong opinions are changing.
For example, the entire coaching thing – where you charge money to give gyaan? Well, I no longer think it’s a bad thing necessarily. There are more examples, but I am not ready to talk about those at this time. May be I will process some more and come around to that.
Also see the bit on founder storytelling coaching thing.
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6/ Work in spurts
I’ve realised that I can only work in spurts. Once I move on, I move on.
Lemme give an example. The other day, I whipped together an app to help folks write their manifestations. And then I moved on. And then while writing this weekly review, I stumbled onto that app again. And ISTG I had forgotten about it. Similarly, I made my own clone of Tally to manage my expenses. I burnt like a billion token on it in a week and then I forgot about it. Till it resurfaced a few days later.
So I need to find a way to track things so that I don’t lose, well, track of those. Any clues? I do have a command centre that I made with Claude, a task manager, a CRM but still.
Oh, another corollary of the same problem. When I work on a project, I have a limited context window for myself. This could mean features, people, tasks, things or whatever. And once I switch the session or move onto something else, I am unable to find a way to recall all things. I’ve started to maintain a tiny readme on each project now but it’s still not a replacement for my brain. Any folks here have been able to grow their brain?
No large thoughts on this one. Simple. That my best ideas and interactions and brainwaves come in when I am talking. And thus I need more listeners. And confidants that I can talk to. And more people who will give honest feedback and not mince words.
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8/ Other Notes and Links
Starting this week, I want to put some effort on this piece. I will try to write a line or two about things that caught my eye in the week gone by. Think of it as a news round up. And I will also share this with folks on my TIL group.
a. iPhone Duo Apple released their new iPhone, and I love it. I am not the kind to have foldable phones, but this one, I want! In case you want to gift one to me, lemme know.
b. Bending Spoons acquired Miro I used to love Miro when I would start with a mindmap on each thing. But with time, I have stopped using. I wonder why. It’s a powerful tool, I enjoy working on the maps and Miro is one of the best tools available for that.
Bending Spoons is one of those companies that acquires good businesses, builds ruthless efficiency in those and makes money. I’ve always imagined having a company like that – multiple businesses, optimised, well paying, well earning and good life.
Of course I’ve heard in private conversations about them being “sharks” and exploitative but I think there’s some lessons there for sure.
c. The AI threat After Jensen said AGI has arrived, this thread by an Anthropic engineer (Jacob) made the world spin. As on last reading, it has 170 MILLION impressions!
While we are on this, also see Anthropic’s Econ Scenarios. Best seen on a computer. Some stark takeaways. Especially if you are reading this. Cos, odds are, you would be a knowledge worker. At least I identify myself as a knowledge worker.
While this was happening, over the weekend, both Sam and Dario seemed to agreed that they need to control the advancement. Wow. I miss that I am not at the frontier of this conversation!
d. Dubai I saw many Indian companies here and I was super proud! A small list is Maharaja Bhog (lol), Bisleri, Porter, Urban Company. Well done fellas!
Staying on this, since I am not surrounded by regular folks, the chats of AI are missing here. In fact, am yet to find my community and network here and thus I dont know what the city talks about!
e. This tweet from Aakrit about AI is fab! Love the simple distillation of what I think is true but could never articulate.
f. Pocket FMs’ $500M The internet melted over Pocket FM’s news about the $500M ARR. And they seem to have pivoted 11 times. Wow. And that they use AI to create content. And they are in the entertainment business. If they can, why can’t others?
g. Writing things down – link From Ben of Stratechery. Took a lot of notes. Especially about his comments on why he doesn’t like watermarking text on AI. I never imagined that could even be a thing!
h. PG’s note on powerful startups – link TBH, I am yet to read this. But he’s written an essay and you better read it.
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PS: Do let me know what you think of this roundup.
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📸 Photos from the week gone by
Quite a few photos.
As always, available on request.
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📈 The trackers of life
No action on trackers. I know that I am unable to track things when I am on the road. So, let’s wait for me to come back. Or settle down.
Human Flag Pole. This is the best thing of the week. For three days, I did 15 push-ups on the trot. This is great improvement for me. I could only do like 2 and now I am upto 15. Even if I am dying after the 10th one. Let’s see when I reach 100. And then I will aim for pullups. And then we shall see where get.
Also, on a this, saw this from Dan Go and was left shocked.
Save a million dollars. No action. I think I need a money coach ;P
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📌 So, what did I get done last few weeks? And what will I do next week?
A one-line report on what shipped. Not WIP.
Health. Sleep, food, movement. Nothing to report. I am walking a tad more and I am controlling what I eat. Rest, nothing to report.
C4E / Work. Same as last week. No large actions. Still shuttling between 66MGRoad and Atlas Fractional.
Brand SG / Distribution. Nothing large.
People. Talked to many people in Dubai. Yet to see how would it impact my life and brand.
Book2. Lol.
Shauk. Nothing tbh. Was busy with travel and all that.
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📅 One thing that defines the past week?
Uncertainty.
And I am surprising ok with that. I know a lot of people are unable to live with it. But I think I am ok with it.
The other words for this year have been: Busy, Skip, Routine, Routine, Getting Back, Freedom, People, Motion, Show, Flow, Excitement, Embarrassment, Blur, Whiling, Movement, Activity, Regular, Easy, Journey, Downtime, Same, Drift, Routine, Busy.
So that.
Over and out. Until next Friday. —SG
PS: This series of posts is inspired by Thej and his weekly notes. Previous editions from 2026 are: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 (missed these three), 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 (missed), 26, 27, 28, 29 (missed these three), 30, 31, 32, 33 (missed), 34, 35 (missed), 36
PPS: Please do point typos.
PPPS: In case you see me being inconsistent in anything – work, writing, reviews etc, PLEASE do point out.
Building the Founder Brand. The story your team can tell without you in the room. A five-step method, 20 examples, good and bad.
Walk into any Starbucks and ask the barista where the coffee comes from.
You will get a story. Origin, roast, the farmer, the year the company started buying from that region. Now walk out, go to the next Starbucks, and ask the same question. Same story. Same words. Same pauses. Do it a third time in a third location and you will start to feel like you are in a play with a script that nobody handed you.
If you are in India, do the same at Blue Tokai and Third Wave. Ask the barista where the coffee comes from. One of them will know. One will point at the packet. One will say “sir I will check.” Three outlets, three stories. Sometimes no story.
Stay with me on that. Lets move ahead.
The short answer
A founder personal brand is the story about the founder that other people can tell when the founder is not in the room. You build one in five steps…
dig out the real origin story
draw its shape
write it at three lengths
rehearse it until it survives a 3am wake-up
then hand it to your first ten hires so they tell it in the same words
Founders who did this well: Sara Blakely, Nithin Kamath, Satya Nadella. Founders whose brand outran the business: Elizabeth Holmes, Adam Neumann, Byju Raveendran. The rest of this piece, about 10,000 words, is the how, the shapes the storytellers drew, and the examples, good and bad. Skip to the questions at the end if you want the fast version.
Forget the LinkedIn banner. Forget the podcast tour. Forget the overtly visible jacket, though we will get to the jacket. A founder’s personal brand is the story about the founder that other people can tell when the founder is not in the room. I am repeating it and I have built a practice around that one sentence. The barista test. If your first ten hires cannot tell your story in the same words, with the same beats, you dont have a brand yet. You have a person with a following.
I have spent a chunk of the last few years in the room with founders, helping them find that story. Some took it to investors. Some ignored everything I said and did fine anyway. This is what I know, what the storytellers knew before me, and a long list of people who got it right and wrong in public.
So, lemme start with a definition.
What the thing is…
In September 2019 I sat with Ashish (a classmate from MDI and he runs Perfect Group). I wrote it up that week and the post still gets read. He runs money. Value investing, Perfect Group, the family business he walked into after an MBA and a stint at Goldman. I expected to learn about compounding. I came out with a lecture on personal brand that I have not been able to improve on since.
Here is the line I wrote that week, and I stand by it: your personal brand is the sum total of your reputation, the value of your word, the experiences people have had with you, the after-taste they are left with after they meet you, and the kind of work you do. Quality. Quantity. Timeliness.
Read that again and notice what is missing. Followers. Posts. A colour palette.
Those are outputs. The brand is the residue. Ashish put it in one sentence that I have repeated to every founder since: if you are an entrepreneur, build your personal brand first, and it will rub off on your business. He did that. He built a name in value investing circles before anyone cared what Perfect Group did. Then the name lifted the group.
There is a second half to the definition that Ashish did not say and I have added since. The brand has two parts. One, what people feel about you, and two, what they can repeat.
A feeling that cannot be retold dies with the person who felt it. A story that can be retold travels without you. That is the entire difference between reputation and brand. Reputation lives in the room. Brand walks out of it.
Why founders, and why now
Three reasons. One is old. Two are new.
The old one is Ashish’s. Every opportunity in an information economy arrives because of what someone has heard about you. The client, the hire, the investor, the journalist. They all Google you before they meet you. What they find is your brand whether you built it or not.
The first new one is data. Edelman and LinkedIn ran a study in early 2024 on what they call thought leadership. 3,484 executives, seven countries. 73 percent of the decision makers said they trust it more than marketing materials. 75 percent said it made them research a product they were not considering. And the number that should scare you: only 15 percent rated what they read as very good or excellent. The demand is there. The supply is bad. That is a market.
The second new one is the machine. Anyone can now produce a thousand words that read fine. What are the odds that this piece is also from a machine? Which means a thousand words that read fine is now worth nothing. What the machine cannot produce is the thing that happened to you, in the room you were in, with the person who was there. The scarce asset in 2026 is a specific, true, re-tellable story. Founders have those by the dozen. Just that most have never written one down.
Sara Blakely wrote hers down in 2000 and has not changed it since. She had 5,000 dollars in savings. She cut the feet off a pair of pantyhose to wear under white trousers. She wrote her own patent because the lawyers cost too much. She sold from the trunk of her car. She faxed. Twenty one years later, in October 2021, Blackstone bought a majority of Spanx at a valuation of 1.2 billion dollars, and the press release quoted her saying “I started this company with no business experience and very little money.” The same line. Two decades. Call it discipline. She found the story once and never let anyone in the company tell a different one.
Compare that to the founders you know. Ask them how the company started and you get a different answer on Tuesday than on Thursday. The Tuesday version has a co-founder in it. The Thursday version has a customer. Neither has an inciting incident. Both fade out.
Brand is NOT a content calendar
I am not going to tell you to post every day. I am not going to give you a content calendar. I am not going to tell you that vulnerability is a strategy.
The reason is a founder whose investors told him, in as many words, that his storytelling needed work before the next round. He was fluent. Nobody had asked him the right question.
A posting schedule would have done nothing for him. He needed someone to sit with him for three hours and find the moment he decided to quit everything for his startup. That moment exists. He lived it. He has never said it out loud in a way that a stranger could repeat. Once that moment is on paper, the LinkedIn posts write themselves and the pitch fixes itself and the team has something to say at the coffee machine. Without it, the posting schedule is a man shouting facts into a room.
So this piece is about finding the story, shaping it, rehearsing it until it survives a 3am wake-up, and then handing it to the people around you so they can tell it without you. It is the long version of what I do in founder storytelling engagements, written down so you can do most of it yourself. The distribution part at the end is short, because it is the easy part.
One more thing before the storytellers. I want you to hold a picture in your head for the next nine thousand words. It is the barista. Every rule below is in service of one question: could the barista tell it?
The people who drew the shapes
Kurt Vonnegut submitted a master’s thesis to the University of Chicago anthropology department that said stories have shapes and the shapes can be drawn on graph paper. The department rejected it. Decades later he called it the prettiest idea he ever had, and he drew it on a blackboard for anyone who would watch. See it here.
The drawing is simple. Vertical axis: good fortune at the top, ill fortune at the bottom. Horizontal axis: beginning to end. Now draw a line.
Man in Hole. Somebody gets into trouble, gets out of it again. The line dips and comes back up, and Vonnegut points out it ends higher than it started. “This is encouraging to readers,” he says, and the room laughs, and he is right.
Boy Meets Girl. Somebody finds something wonderful, loses it, gets it back.
Cinderella. Flat and low, then a staircase up as the gifts arrive, a cliff down at midnight, and then the line goes off the top of the chart. Vonnegut noticed that the Cinderella curve and the curve of the New Testament are the same drawing. He said he would not have gotten a degree for that either.
From Bad to Worse. Kafka’s Metamorphosis. Starts low, goes lower, stops.
Which Way Is Up. Hamlet. The line wanders in the middle because we never find out whether the news is good or bad, and that, Vonnegut argues, is why Hamlet is a masterpiece. Life does not tell you which news is good.
In 2016 a team at the University of Vermont fed 1,327 stories from Project Gutenberg into a sentiment analysis and let the computer draw the curves. Andrew Reagan, Peter Dodds, Chris Danforth and two others. The paper is called “The emotional arcs of stories are dominated by six basic shapes.”
Six. Rags to riches, a rise. Tragedy, a fall. Man in a hole, fall then rise. Icarus, rise then fall. Cinderella, rise, fall, rise. Oedipus, fall, rise, fall. Vonnegut had been told there was no science in it. There was. He had been dead nine years when the paper came out.
Why does a founder care about a blackboard drawing from an anthropology dropout?
Because every founder story I have ever heard in a pitch is drawn as a straight line going up. Started, grew, raised, growing, will raise. Flat and rising. There is no such curve in Vonnegut and no such curve in the Vermont data. A line that only rises is a chart. Investors have seen ten thousand charts.
The founders who get remembered are drawn as Man in Hole. Or Cinderella. There is a dip. There is a midnight. The dip is the part you are leaving out because you think it makes you look weak, and it is the only part the listener will retell.
Campbell, and the mistake everyone makes with him
Joseph Campbell published The Hero with a Thousand Faces in 1949. One sentence from it has done more work than the other four hundred pages: “A hero ventures forth from the world of common day into a region of supernatural wonder: fabulous forces are there encountered and a decisive victory is won: the hero comes back from this mysterious adventure with the power to bestow boons on his fellow man.”
See this…
Departure. Initiation. Return. Seventeen stages inside those three. Or 11. Depending on which version you’re reading.
The Call to Adventure. The Refusal of the Call. Crossing the First Threshold. The Belly of the Whale. The Road of Trials. The Ultimate Boon. The Return with the power to help.
Christopher Vogler, then a story analyst at Disney, whose twelve stages I have written about before, boiled Campbell into a seven page memo for screenwriters and then into a book, The Writer’s Journey, with twelve stages. Ordinary World. Call to Adventure. Refusal. Meeting the Mentor. Crossing the Threshold. Tests, Allies, Enemies. Approach to the Inmost Cave. Ordeal. Reward. The Road Back. Resurrection. Return with the Elixir. If you have watched a film made after 1990 you have watched that list.
Dan Harmon, who made Community and Rick and Morty, cut it down further into a circle with eight points. You. Need. Go. Search. Find. Take. Return. Change. A character is in a zone of comfort, wants something, enters an unfamiliar situation, adapts, gets what they wanted, pays a heavy price, returns to the familiar, having changed. Harmon says you can draw it on a napkin, and you can.
Now the mistake.
Founders read Campbell and cast themselves as the hero. Mike Maples Jr and Peter Ziebelman, who wrote Pattern Breakers, have the sharpest line on this: the best entrepreneurs do not mistake themselves for the hero in their story. The story has to be about the early customers, the employees, the investors they are trying to bring along.
Read Campbell again with that in mind. The hero is your customer. The Ordinary World is their life before you. The Call is the problem. The Mentor is you. Obi-Wan does not fly the X-wing. He hands over the lightsaber and gets out of the way.
Where the founder does get to be the hero is in the founder’s own origin story, and even there the arc is the same. Ordinary World: the job, the lab, the family business. Call: the thing you saw that nobody else would fix. Refusal: the two years you told yourself someone else would do it. Threshold: the day you quit. Ordeal: the eighteen months nobody talks about. Return: what you now know that you can hand to others.
Every founder has that arc. Every one. The story is there. The problem is that the founder tells it from the Threshold onward, skips the Refusal because it feels indecisive, skips the Ordeal because it feels weak, and lands on the Boon with no earned weight behind it.
Most founders can tell me where the company name came from. Good. That is a Mentor line. Ask what made them quit everything, what the inciting incident was, and the answer is not ready. It is in there. Nobody has asked in a way that forced it out.
Aristotle, Freytag, and the four-act cousin
Two more from the West and one from the East, and then we go to work.
Aristotle, in the Poetics, said a whole thing has a beginning, a middle and an end, which sounds like nothing until you notice how many founder stories have two beginnings and no end. He also named two moves that every good story has. Peripeteia: the reversal, where the action turns on itself. Anagnorisis: the recognition, where a character goes from ignorance to knowledge. The reversal is the day the big customer walks. The recognition is the day you understand why they walked. Founders have both and tell neither.
Gustav Freytag drew his pyramid in 1863. Exposition, rising action, climax, falling action, resolution. Five parts. Useful for one reason: it tells you the climax is in the middle, not at the end. The founder story that ends on “and then we raised our Series A” has put the climax at the end and has no falling action, no resolution, nothing to hand the listener. Freytag would send it back.
Then there is kishotenketsu. Four acts, from Chinese and Japanese narrative. Ki, the introduction. Sho, the development. Ten, the turn. Ketsu, the conclusion. Notice what is missing. Conflict. There is no villain and no fight. The third act is a twist that makes you reread the first two acts. A lot of Indian founder stories fit this shape better than the Hollywood one. Nobody tried to stop Nithin Kamath from building Zerodha. There was no enemy. There was a turn: the realisation that the industry made money by making people trade more, and that a broker who made money when customers traded less could win. That is a Ten and the company is the Ketsu.
The shapes that sell
Two more drawings, both from people who used them to move money.
Nancy Duarte, in Resonate in 2010, drew what she calls the sparkline. A presentation that works oscillates between what is and what could be. Down, up, down, up, ending on a high she calls the new bliss. She overlaid Martin Luther King’s “I Have a Dream” on it. She overlaid Steve Jobs’s iPhone launch from January 2007 on it. Same shape.
Go back and watch that Jobs keynote. “Every once in a while, a revolutionary product comes along that changes everything.”
That is what could be. Then he describes the state of smartphones, and mocks the keyboards. That is what is. Then the three devices: a widescreen iPod with touch controls, a revolutionary mobile phone, a breakthrough internet communicator. He says the three names again. And again. Then: “These are not three separate devices. This is one device.” That is the gap closing. That is peripeteia in a black turtleneck.
Robert McKee, whose book Story from 1997 has been read by every screenwriter in Los Angeles and by exactly none of the founders I have worked with, has the cleanest single idea of the lot. He calls it the gap. The distance between what the protagonist expects and what happens. Any scene where the protagonist gets exactly what they expect is a scene not worth shooting. In 2003 he told Harvard Business Review that a story is how and why life changes, and that a CEO’s job is to move people to a goal, and the way into people is story.
Your founder story has a gap or it has nothing. You expected the product to sell. It did not. You expected the co-founder to stay. He did not. You expected the pilot to convert. It did, at one tenth the price. The gap is where the listener leans in. Close it too fast and they lean back.
And the smallest tool of all. Emma Coats, then a story artist at Pixar, tweeted 22 rules of storytelling in 2011. Rule four is a fill-in-the-blanks: Once upon a time there was . Every day, . One day . Because of that, . Because of that, . Until finally . Kenn Adams invented it in 1991 as an improv exercise and called it the story spine. It fits on a napkin next to Harmon’s circle.
I make founders fill it in before we do anything else. Eight lines. Most cannot get past “One day” without stopping to think. That pause is the diagnosis. The One Day is the inciting incident, and if it is not on the tip of your tongue, nobody in your company has it either.
How I do it
Here is the process I run with a founder. Five steps. It takes about six weeks if the founder shows up, and forever if they dont. The paid version of it is the six week founder coaching block, and the six weeks are these five steps with me in the room.
1/ Dig. Two to three hours, recorded, biography style, the same interview I run when I ghostwrite a founder’s book. Childhood, family business or lack of one, first job, first firing, the thing they saw that nobody else saw, the day they quit. I am not looking for the highlights. I am looking for the Refusal and the Ordeal, the two stages every founder skips. I ask the same question four different ways until the real answer falls out. “What made you quit?” gets the LinkedIn answer. “What was the date?” gets a pause. “Who did you tell first?” gets the story.
2/ Draw. I take the transcript and draw it on Vonnegut’s axes. Where is the dip. Where is midnight. Then I lay Harmon’s eight points on it and find which ones are missing. There is always a missing Take, the price paid. Founders remember the win and forget what it cost. The cost is the credibility.
3/ Write. Three lengths. Thirty seconds, for the lift. Three minutes, for the first meeting. Fifteen minutes, for the stage and the fundraise. Same story, same beats, same words at the joints. The thirty second version is the hardest and gets written last.
Here is what a thirty second version looks like when it is done. Invented founder, real shape. Once upon a time there was a second generation corrugated box maker in Gujarat. Every day he quoted on price and lost to the plant next door by fifty paise a box. One day a pharma client rejected a full truck for a crush strength failure and he spent a night on the factory floor with a testing rig he had never touched. Because of that, he started publishing crush strength numbers on every quote. Because of that, the buyers who cared about the number stopped asking about the fifty paise. Until finally he was the only box maker in the state whose sales team led with a lab report. Eight lines. One dip, one turn, one proof. His head of sales can say it. So can the man on the corrugator.
4/ Rehearse. This is the step everyone wants to skip even though its probably the most important one. The founder says it out loud, to me, twenty times. Then to a stranger. Then on video. The founder’s biggest fear at this stage is that a rehearsed story will stop sounding like them. It does not, and I have written about why a captured voice still sounds like you. The test I use is the 3am test. Koi tere ko neend mein utha ke bole, apni company ke baare mein bata, and it should rattle off. Not a performance. A reflex. Blakely has said the pantyhose line so many times it has the same cadence every time! Rehearsal is how you get to natural. There is no other road.
5/ Cascade. The founder tells the story to the first ten people in the company, in the same words, and asks them to tell it back. Then the chief of staff tells it to the next ten. Concentric circles. Founder, early team, investors, media, the customer who becomes a reference. By the third circle the founder is not in the room and the story still gets told. That is the barista. When a company wants this written down and on the record, for an anniversary or a rebrand or a founder stepping back, it becomes a company story project, and that is a different, longer piece of work.
Six weeks. No content calendar in sight. The content calendar is what you build after, once there is something to say.
The Take: the beat you are leaving out
I want to slow down on step two because it is where the good founders separate from the fluent ones.
Harmon’s sixth point is Take. You got what you wanted. Now pay. In a film it is the mentor dying or the hero losing a hand. In a founder story it is smaller and it hurts more. The co-founder who left. The year with no salary. The product you loved that you had to kill. The customer you fired. The investor who passed with a line you still remember.
Every founder has three of these. Almost none put them in the story. The reason they give me is that investors want confidence. Which is true, and beside the point. Investors have heard ten thousand confident founders. What they have not heard is a founder who can name the cost and is still standing. The Take is what makes the Return believable.
Here is my own.
In 2019 I wrote that I would stand for three things: creative entrepreneurship, startups, and impact. I picked them in an afternoon and called them fuzzy in the same post. A friend told me that same month that nobody knows for sure what I do. Seven years on, my LinkedIn headline reads “Tinkering.” I run a practice that finds founders their one line. I have written about being a generalist as if it were a choice. I have not found mine. I know what works. I have not implemented it.
That paragraph is the most useful thing in this piece for anyone who has heard me give this talk, because it is the part they will remember. Report the gap. Do not grade it. Move on.
Three hashtags
Ashish’s second lesson, and the one people push back on hardest.
Pick three themes you want to be known for, and make each one simple enough that a five year old could repeat it. He called them hashtags. Malala: girls’ education. Bill Gates: software, then global health. Piyush Pandey: advertising, and the moustache. Ranveer Singh: irreverence. Ashish himself: value investing, community.
Then the hard rule. Every single thing you put out has to sit under one of the three. If it does not, it is noise, and noise is what stops the barista from learning the script.
The pushback is always the same. “But I am more than three things.” Yes. Everyone is. The person is bigger than the brand. The brand is the three things the person is willing to be reduced to in public so that a stranger can hold them in one hand. Deepika Padukone is more than three things. Nobody cares. Mother Earth does not revolve around you.
Founders find this hard because the company is one thing and the founder is several. Here is the fix I use. Hashtag one is the company’s problem, stated as a belief. Hashtag two is the founder’s craft, the thing they were good at before the company. Hashtag three is the founder’s obsession outside work that explains the first two. Kamath: retail investors deserve a fair broker. Trading, from the age of seventeen. Fitness, which is where the Zerodha health obsession comes from. Three hashtags. You could draw his LinkedIn from them without looking.
The social object
This is the part founders laugh at until it works.
Picture a founder who goes looking for one jacket. A specific jacket, in the company’s colour, worn to every meeting. That is a smarter brand decision than most founders make all year.
The idea comes from Neil Strauss’s The Game, of all places. Peacocking. Wear one thing that is visible from across the room so that people come to you. The peacock’s tail is a conversation starter the peacock does not have to start. Strip out the pickup artist nonsense and the principle survives: give the stranger a reason to approach before you have said a word.
Milind Soman wears thong chappals. Everywhere. Airports, stages, dinners. It is a conversation every time, and he never has to open it. Piyush Pandey’s moustache did the same job for four decades of Ogilvy. Richard Branson has built fifteen unrelated businesses on a beard, a grin and a willingness to dress as a bride for Virgin Brides in 1996 and stand in Times Square in a bodysuit in 2002. The businesses have nothing in common. The man is the connective tissue, and the man is recognisable at fifty metres.
Steve Jobs had the black turtleneck. Which brings us to the warning, and we will get to her in the bad examples. The social object works when it is true to the person. It fails when it is borrowed.
For a deeptech founder the object can be smaller than a jacket. The company colour on the watch strap. The laptop wallpaper. A clip on the shirt. Subliminal cues, repeated for a year. Nobody will remember the watch strap. Everyone will feel like they have seen you before, and feeling like you have seen someone before is nine tenths of trust.
Ashish’s third lesson and the one that filters out most of the people who read pieces like this one.
Each thing you do must add value. If you cannot add value, forget about even trying to build a personal brand. He does it by gifting books, running a WhatsApp broadcast of relevant reads, showing up at forums and meetups, and keeping notes on every person he meets so that he knows where to slot whom.
The founder version of this is easier because founders have something most people dont: a front row seat to a problem nobody else can see. Every week you learn something about your market that a journalist would pay for. Say it. The Kamath tweets that made Zerodha’s founder one of the most followed voices in Indian finance are numbers. Pep talks he leaves to others. What percentage of traders lose money. What the exchange charges. Why the brokerage industry is built the way it is. Facts from the front row.
The test for value is whether someone would forward it to a colleague with the words “read this.” Nobody forwards “excited to announce.”
Content is compounding, distribution is planning
Ashish’s fourth lesson has a line I use in every workshop: content is like compounding. It takes consistent effort over a long term to see the tsunami of results. Start soon and let the law of numbers work.
The half of that lesson everyone forgets is the second sentence he said, which is that each piece of content needs a distribution plan before it is written. His hack is the simplest one I know. Especially in this day and age where distribution is indeed the king.
Find a publication with a wider reach than you and write for them. He did it with the investing forums and the business papers. Kamath did it by being the most quotable person in every fintech story for a decade, which is a distribution plan disguised as candour.
Then his sixth lesson, When in Rome. The same idea wears different clothes on different channels. The tweet is a line at best. The LinkedIn post is a lesson. The blog is the argument. The podcast is the story. Most people take the blog and paste it everywhere and wonder why it dies on three of the four.
And his eighth, in the words he used, which he told me to get shameless about. Jo dikhta hai wo bikta hai. What is visible sells. It is time consuming. There are no tangible outcomes for the first year. It works anyway. He thinks in ten year horizons. Not ten days.
I said the distribution part would be short.
When the story is not the product
A fair objection from the deeptech crowd, and I want to take it head on because they are right.
In deeptech, data often is sacrosanct. No story raises a Series A if the data is bad. No jacket saves a trial. The founder who spends the months before a raise on his personal brand while the data is still out has his priorities upside down, and every investor in the room will know it.
Lemme take an example. Alt Carbon, out of Darjeeling, spends more on brand than anyone I have seen in that market, and they are right to, because a carbon credit is a promise that is hard to verify and the whole category runs on trust. There, the story is close to being the product. Buyers cannot see the rock dust in the tea estate. They can see the founders.
So the honest rule is a sliding scale. The harder your product is to verify, the more the story has to carry. The easier it is to verify, the more the story’s job is to get the right people to look at the data at all.
For the deeptech founder that means the story does one narrow job. It gets a specialised deeptech investor to open the data room with the right expectation already in their head. Once the data is on the table the story steps back. Which is why the brand spend for a deeptech founder is small and specific: one origin story that survives 3am, one visual cue, a team that tells it the same way, and nothing else until the data lands. Not Alt Carbon scale. Not zero either.
I did this inside a robotics vision company as a shared CMO, sitting in the office, running the PR, content and design agencies from one desk. Deeptech, specialised investors, a product that has to be seen on a factory floor to be believed. The job was never to make the founders famous. The job was to make sure that when a robotics investor abroad Googled them, what came up matched what the demo would show. Story as a set of expectations, data as the payoff. That is the deeptech version of brand, and it is smaller and cheaper than what a D2C founder needs, and it still cannot be skipped.
The three objections I hear every week
I will name them, because you are thinking one of them.
“I am an introvert.” Fine. So is Nadh, who has built one of the most respected engineering teams in the country without living on stages. The brand is the story other people can tell about you. An introvert who has written down one true story and handed it to ten colleagues has a brand. An extrovert who posts every day without one does not. Volume is optional. The story is not.
“My work speaks for itself.” Ratan Tata’s did, after fifty years and a hundred year old surname. Yours does not, yet. The Edelman number again: 75 percent of decision makers researched a product they had not been considering because of something a person, with a name, wrote. Your work is in the building. The buyer is not. Somebody has to carry it out to them and the only two candidates are you and a story you have taught to others.
“I dont have time.” You have time for the pitch deck. The story is the first three slides of the pitch deck, done once, so that you stop rewriting them every round. Three hours of digging and a month of saying it out loud in the car. After that it costs nothing, because it becomes a reflex, and reflexes are free.
There is a fourth objection nobody says out loud, and it is the real one.
“I am not sure my story is good enough.” Every founder I have sat with has believed this at the start, and every one of them was wrong, for a specific reason. They were measuring their story against the finished version of someone else’s. Blakely’s fax machine story sounds inevitable now. In 2001 it was a woman who could not get a meeting. A founder’s story sounds thin to him because he has never heard it told back with the Take put back in. Once you hear your own dip narrated by somebody else, you stop asking whether it is good enough. You start asking why you left it out.
What India does differently
One more detour, because most of the people reading this are building here and the imported advice does not fit.
In the US, the founder brand is a single note. One thing, played loud, for a decade. Blakely is pantyhose. Branson is the outsider. That works in a market that rewards depth and punishes the multi-hyphenate.
India tolerates the multi-hyphenate. Kamath is a broker and a fitness obsessive and a philanthropist through Rainmatter and all three sit on the same profile without anyone blinking. Warikoo is a founder and a teacher and an author. Shah is a founder and an investor and a theorist. The Indian audience will hold three hashtags for you. It will not hold seven.
Dubai and Singapore, where a lot of Indian founders are now raising and selling, do not tolerate it at all. I spend part of every month in Dubai now and the founders I meet there, Indian founders in the Gulf in particular, are judged on one thing, deep. There the buyer wants one thing, deep, and reads breadth as indecision. If you are building for the Gulf, cut your three down to one for that market and keep the other two for home. Same person. Different edit.
The second Indian difference is Hinglish, and the rule is short. Use it where it makes a point you cannot make as cleanly in English. Jo dikhta hai wo bikta hai has been selling things in this country for longer than the word marketing has existed here. Use that. Do not use it as decoration and do not translate it in brackets. If the reader needs the bracket they were not your reader.
The third difference is the family business. Half the founders I meet in this country walked into something a parent built. Ashish did. The imported Hero’s Journey has no room for that: the Ordinary World is supposed to be dull and the hero is supposed to leave it. The Indian version is the opposite. The Ordinary World is a working company with a reputation, and the founder’s Call is to change it without breaking it. That is a harder story and a better one, and almost nobody tells it, because they think inheriting a business disqualifies them from having a founder story at all. It does not. It gives you a Mentor built in. Use him.
Founder personal brand by market: India, the US, the UK, Dubai, Singapore
The same story lands differently in five cities, and I now sell into all five, so here is the edit for each. Same person. Five cuts.
United States. One note, played loud, for a decade. The US audience rewards the founder who is one thing and punishes the multi-hyphenate as unfocused.
Lead with the Take: American investors have heard the pitch, they have not heard the cost. LinkedIn and X carry equal weight. Podcasts are the distribution channel that compounds; a forty minute conversation on a mid-sized show does more than a year of posts. Indian founders in the US have one extra job: the two-country story is your asset, so tell it as one arc, never as two halves.
United Kingdom. Understate. The British buyer reads a loud founder brand as a warning sign and reads a dry one as confidence. The proof goes in early and the adjectives go out. LinkedIn matters more than X. Say the number, then stop talking. British Indian founders get a longer runway on the origin story because the audience likes a slow build, and a shorter runway on the boast.
India. Three hashtags, held loosely. The audience tolerates breadth and rewards candour: Kamath’s numbers, Warikoo’s pricing. LinkedIn is the room where deals start; X is where the voice gets tested. Hinglish is welcome as spice. The founder in the wild is watched harder here than anywhere: one screenshot travels the startup crowd in an afternoon, as Grover and Deshpande found. Family business founders have the best untold story in the country and tell it least.
Dubai and the UAE. Depth, then relationships. The Gulf buyer wants one thing done deep and reads a wide profile as a man between jobs. In-person weight is higher than anywhere else on this list: majlis, breakfast, the DIFC lobby. The story has to work in a two minute standing conversation with no slides. Visual consistency counts double, because you will be one of thirty founders somebody met that week. Founders in Dubai who come from India carry the India proof with them; lead with it, in one line, then move to what you are building here.
Singapore. Credentials first, story second, and both short. The Singapore audience is institutional: family offices, regional HQs, a government that reads founder profiles. Proof has to be third-party: the grant, the pilot with a named corporate, the accelerator. The story is what makes the proof memorable. Indian founders in Singapore are often speaking to a Southeast Asian buyer who has never heard of the Indian company behind them, so the origin story does the introducing.
One rule for all five. The story does not change. The length, the order and the loudness do.
The ones who got it right
I want to walk through people who did this well, and I want to be specific about what they did, because “be authentic” is advice that has never helped anyone.
Nithin Kamath. Zerodha started in August 2010 with his brother Nikhil. No advertising, then or now. In January 2025 he explained why in one line: had they advertised, they would have given up a big chunk of their profits to Google and Meta. Around 30 percent of customers came through referrals. And the second half of the reason is the brand: not advertising kept them honest about not pushing people to trade. The numbers behind the stance, from FY25: revenue of 8,847 crore, profit of 4,237 crore, cash reserves of 22,679 crore. Down from FY24, and he said so before anyone asked.
What Kamath does that other founders dont is that his personal content and his company’s business model are the same sentence. The tweets about how most traders lose money are the reason the company has no ads. The ten year story about a broker who does not want you to trade too much is told by him, by his CTO, by the support team, and by the Rainmatter fund. Barista test passed. Three hashtags visible from orbit.
Kailash Nadh. The Zerodha CTO is the counter example inside the same company. He has kept the tech team at around thirty people for a decade. His line on hiring is four words: “I have only hired hackers.” He does not do the podcast circuit. His brand is the open source code Zerodha has shipped and the tech blog. Founders assume brand means volume. Nadh’s is built on artefacts. The story about him gets told by other engineers, in their words, which is a better distribution channel than his own would be.
Sara Blakely. Covered above, and worth one more line. The story has not changed in twenty years and neither has the teller. Every employee at Spanx can tell the fax machine story. Blackstone’s press release in October 2021 told it too. When your acquirer repeats your origin story in their own announcement, the cascade is complete.
Richard Branson. Virgin Records in 1970, from a mail order business. Virgin Atlantic in 1984, because he was stranded in Puerto Rico, chartered a plane and sold the seats off a chalkboard. He sold the record label to Thorn EMI in 1992 for around a billion dollars to keep the airline alive against British Airways. The stunts came after, and each of them is the same story: the outsider who does the thing the incumbents will not. The story fits every business he has entered because the story was never about the business. It was about him against whoever was comfortable. You can disagree with the man and still notice that a brand past fifty, across airlines, trains, phones, gyms and space has one narrator and one arc.
Kunal Shah. Delta 4 is a theory he first presented at an Accel event and it has become the most repeated founder idea in Indian startup circles. A product that scores at least four points higher than the incumbent on a ten point efficiency scale creates wealth, because the behaviour becomes irreversible, high tolerance, and brag worthy. Swiggy at nine against phone ordering at three. The example does the arguing. What Shah did with it is the lesson: he gave the idea a name, repeated it for years, and let other people explain it for him. The theory is now told by founders who have never met him. That is a social object made of words.
Satya Nadella. When he became CEO in February 2014 Microsoft was worth about 300 billion dollars and the stock had gone nowhere for a decade. In January 2024 it crossed three trillion. Between those two numbers is one story that Nadella told in Hit Refresh in 2017 and in every interview since: learn it all, not know it all. One idea, repeated for a decade, until managers three layers down could say it in a performance review. The story about Microsoft’s culture is now told by people who have never met him. That is the Starbucks barista at planetary scale, and it is the reason so many founders list Nadella as a hero.
Ratan Tata. Here is the one that breaks the rules. He joined Instagram in October 2019 and had 341,000 followers within hours. At his death in October 2024 he had 10.6 million followers from 67 posts. He never touched X or Facebook. He built the most trusted business name in India without a content calendar, a ghostwriter or a single “excited to announce.” How? The story about him was told by other people for fifty years. The Jaguar Land Rover purchase. The Nano. The dogs at Bombay House. He never told it himself. He did not have to. The value was so obvious, and the behaviour so consistent, that the story wrote itself in other mouths.
I include him for two reasons. One, to make the point that content is a means and the barista is the end. Two, to make the point that you are not Ratan Tata. He had a hundred year old name and a lifetime of behaviour to draw on. You have a two year old company and a deck. Until the world tells your story for you, you tell it.
Ankur Warikoo. The purest content led founder brand in India, and the one most people misread. Nearbuy, then a resignation in 2019, then three books with Epic in the title. The misread is that the brand is the books and the reels. The brand is one behaviour he has stuck to across every surface: making the expensive lesson cheap. In June 2026 he said no to an offer of over a hundred crore for his courses business because the buyer would double the prices, and he cut it to 1,999 rupees a year instead, so that, in his words, a kid in Kanpur earning 18,000 a month could afford it. Whether the reels are your taste or not, that is a founder whose story and whose pricing are the same sentence. Barista test passed.
Steve Jobs, once more, for the mechanics. The 2007 keynote is taught in every presentation class on earth for a reason. He named the three devices, then named them again, then a third time faster, and the room started laughing before he landed the line. That is repetition as rehearsal, in front of a packed hall, done so that the audience would be able to repeat it in the car park. They did. “An iPod, a phone, and an internet communicator” was retold all week by people who had never held one.
What the good ones share
Look at that list. A broker, a coder, a pantyhose founder, a record label owner, a fintech theorist, a software CEO, an industrialist who posted 67 times, a course seller and a keynote. Nothing in common on the surface.
Underneath, four things.
One. Each has one story, and it is the same story every time. Not the same topic. The same story, with the same beats and the same lines at the joints. The repetition is the brand.
Two. The story and the business are the same sentence. Kamath’s tweets are his business model. Warikoo’s pricing is his content. Blakely’s fax machine is her go to market. When the story and the business diverge, the story is a costume, and costumes get noticed.
Three. Other people tell it. Employees, acquirers, engineers, founders who have never met them. The story has left the room.
Four. Each has a dip. Kamath’s FY25 numbers were down and he said so. Blakely was rejected by every hosiery mill in North Carolina. Branson sold the thing he loved to save the thing that was dying. Nadella inherited a stock that had gone nowhere for ten years. No straight lines up. Man in Hole, every one.
Now the other list.
The ones who got it wrong
Every one of these people was, at some point, held up as the example to copy. I know because founders brought them to me as references. That is the first lesson of the bad list: the brand can be working right up to the day it isnt.
Elizabeth Holmes. Theranos was valued at nine billion dollars in 2014. She wore black turtlenecks in every photograph. She lowered her voice. She modelled herself on Jobs so hard that people who had worked with Jobs said so out loud. Investors put in about 945 million dollars. On 3 January 2022 a jury convicted her on four counts of fraud and conspiracy. In November 2022 she was sentenced to eleven years and three months.
She was a fraud, and that is the court’s lesson. The brand lesson is the borrowed social object. The turtleneck was Jobs’s. The voice was somebody else’s. The story was the Hero’s Journey with the Ordeal removed, because the Ordeal was that the machine did not work. When the social object is borrowed and the dip is hidden, the brand is a costume, and the day the costume comes off there is nothing under it.
Adam Neumann. WeWork’s S-1 landed on 14 August 2019 and opened with the sentence “Our mission is to elevate the world’s consciousness.” The word energy appeared thirteen times. The company had lost about 690 million dollars in the first half of that year, had lent Neumann 362 million, and was leasing buildings from entities Neumann owned. The valuation in January had been 47 billion. The IPO was pulled by September. In November 2023 WeWork filed for Chapter 11.
The brand lesson is that the story and the business had stopped being the same sentence. The story was consciousness. The business was subletting desks. Every founder in the room could see the gap. The market took six weeks to price it. And in August 2022 Andreessen Horowitz wrote Neumann its largest cheque ever, 350 million dollars, for his next company, which tells you the brand survived the business. Take what you want from that.
Sam Bankman-Fried. Sequoia published a profile of him on its own site in which he played League of Legends during the Zoom pitch that got them to invest over 200 million dollars, and the profile treated this as charming. Sequoia deleted it on 11 November 2022, the day FTX filed for bankruptcy. He was convicted on all seven counts in November 2023 and sentenced to 25 years in March 2024.
The brand lesson is the same as Holmes with the polarity reversed. Holmes performed polish. Bankman-Fried performed the absence of it. The shorts, the hair, the video game during the pitch. Every one of those was a social object, chosen, and the story it told was “I am too busy being a genius to care.” Investors retold it for him. The barista test was passed, in the worst possible way. A story that everyone can repeat is still a liability if it is not true.
Byju Raveendran. This one hurts more because the early story was real. A teacher from a village in Kerala who filled stadiums of 25,000 students for maths classes in the late 2000s. Think & Learn in 2011, the app in 2015, Shah Rukh Khan as brand ambassador in 2017, the Indian cricket team’s jersey from September 2019. A peak valuation of 22 billion dollars in 2022. Then the National Company Law Tribunal admitted an insolvency petition on 16 July 2024 over a 19 million dollar claim from the cricket board, and in October 2024 Raveendran said the company was worth zero.
The brand lesson is the drift. The founder brand started as a teacher. Somewhere around the cricket jersey it became a conglomerate. The story at the front door stayed “Byju the teacher” while the company behind it was a sales machine that parents were complaining about on consumer forums. When the front door story and the back office reality diverge that far, the story becomes the evidence against you.
Ashneer Grover. Shark Tank India’s first season aired from 20 December 2021 to 11 February 2022, and for those eight weeks he was the most recognisable founder in the country. Blunt, quotable, the shark who said what the others would not. In January 2022 an audio clip surfaced of him abusing a Kotak employee over IPO financing. He disputed it. He went on leave. On 28 February 2022 he resigned from BharatPe, citing attacks on him, and the company’s review then found payments to vendors that did not exist. His memoir, Doglapan, came out in December 2022.
The brand lesson is that the social object was the bluntness, and bluntness on television is the same trait as abuse on a phone call. He built a brand on a behaviour that could not be controlled once the camera was off. The brand did what it said on the tin. That was the problem.
Travis Kalanick. On 28 February 2017 Bloomberg published dashcam video of the Uber CEO arguing with his own driver about fares and ending with “some people don’t like to take responsibility for their own shit.” The next day he wrote to staff that he needed to “fundamentally change as a leader and grow up.” On 20 June 2017 he resigned under investor pressure.
The brand lesson is the one founders least want to hear. The founder is always on. The driver was a stranger with a camera, and the four minute clip did what six months of press about Uber’s culture had not, because it was the founder, in the wild, saying what the press had only alleged. Your brand is what you do when you think the story is not being told.
Elon Musk. I include him with care because the man has built more than anyone on this list and the data is the data. Tesla delivered 1,636,129 vehicles in 2025, down about nine percent from 2024 and the second annual decline in a row. In Europe, registrations fell 26.9 percent to 238,656 in a year when the electric car market as a whole grew. A Yale study published in October 2025 estimated that Musk’s political activity cost Tesla between one and one point two six million US sales between October 2022 and April 2025, with the break in the data landing on the month he bought Twitter.
The brand lesson is the reverse of Kamath. Kamath’s personal voice and his company’s business are one sentence. Musk’s personal voice and Tesla’s customer base pulled in opposite directions, and the customer base moved. When the founder is the brand, the founder’s every position is a pricing decision. He made a lot of them.
Braden Wallake. The American CEO of a small agency called HyperSocial posted a crying selfie on LinkedIn in August 2022 after laying off some staff. “This will be the most vulnerable thing I’ll ever share.” 33,000 reactions and a global roasting. He later said his intent was not to make it about himself. It was, though. The post had his face in it and no employee’s name.
The brand lesson is Maples’s line. The founder cast himself as the hero of a story whose actual protagonists had lost their jobs that morning. Camera on the wrong person.
Shantanu Deshpande. The Bombay Shaving Company founder wrote in August 2022 that twenty two year olds should work eighteen hours a day for their first four or five years and skip the “random rona-dhona.” He apologised on 1 September. The lesson is the same as Kalanick’s: the founder was never off, and the post was the founder in the wild. The story he had told about the company for years did not survive contact with the founder’s actual views on a Tuesday.
YesMadam. December 2024. A leaked “HR email” claimed the salon-at-home startup had fired the staff who reported feeling stressed in a survey. It went round the world in a day. Then the company said it was a stunt to launch a stress leave policy. Nobody was fired. The brand lesson is that a story you fake becomes the only story anyone remembers, and the policy it was meant to launch is now a footnote in coverage of the stunt.
Deepinder Goyal, as the one in the middle. I cannot put him on either list and that is why he is useful. He waived his salary from April 2021. On 6 October 2024 he spent a day delivering food in a Zomato shirt with his wife, and a Gurugram mall made him use the service stairs, and he posted that malls need to be more humane to delivery partners. Half the internet applauded. The other half asked when the policy would change. Six weeks later he posted a chief of staff role with no salary in year one and a 20 lakh rupee payment to charity from the candidate. Five million views, 18,000 applications, and a clarification within days that the fee was a filter and would not be collected. In January 2026 he stepped down as CEO of Eternal.
The lesson is the difference between a story and a stunt. The delivery day was a story because it produced a fact he did not choose: the stairs. The chief of staff post was a stunt because every fact in it was designed. Audiences can tell. They cannot always say how. They can tell.
What the bad ones share
A borrowed object. Holmes’s turtleneck, Bankman-Fried’s shorts. Something worn because it worked for somebody else or because it signalled something the founder had not earned.
A hidden dip. Every one of them told a straight line up. Theranos’s machine did not work. WeWork was losing 690 million a half. Byju’s was a sales operation. The Ordeal was in the building. It was not in the story.
The story and the business in different sentences. Consciousness versus subletting. Teacher versus sales floor. Deshpande’s brand versus eighteen hour days.
And the founder in the wild. Kalanick in the car. Deshpande on a Tuesday. Grover on the phone. The brand is what you do when the story is not being told, and the story is always being told.
None of these people lacked a personal brand. Just that each of them had one that worked, that got retold, that passed the barista test, that raised money and hired people and filled stadiums. A brand is an amplifier. It makes a true story travel further, and it makes a false one fall harder. It has no opinion on which one you hand it.
The five heroes exercise
One more tool, and it is the one I give founders as homework. It sits between coaching and mentoring, which is where most founders live.
Pick five people whose brand you admire. Not whose companies you admire. Whose speaking, writing and presence you would steal if you could.
Now go two levels deeper on each. Why does it work. Not “he is clear.” Why is he clear. Is it preparation, is it a teleprompter, is it that he has said the same thing four hundred times, is it lived experience that shows in the pauses, is it structure. Write four or five traits for each hero. Five heroes, up to twenty five traits.
Then the honest bit. Go down the list and mark each trait one of three ways. Already have it. Can build it with practice. Need a coach. Most founders find that they already have eight or ten of the traits and had never named them, that another eight are practice, and that three or four need someone in the room. That map is your rehearsal plan for the year. It is worth more than any content strategy you will be sold.
Most founders find, halfway through, that they have more of the traits than they thought. Articulation, yes. Confidence, yes. What is missing is structure and reps. Which is the cheapest gap there is to close.
What I would do if I were you
You have read nine thousand words. Here is what to do with them this week, in order, and none of it involves posting.
1/ Fill in the story spine. Once upon a time. Every day. One day. Because of that. Because of that. Until finally. Eight lines. If you stall at One day, that is your homework, and nothing else matters until it is done.
2/ Draw it on Vonnegut’s axes. If the line only goes up, you have left out the Take. Put it back. The co-founder who left. The year without salary. The product you killed.
3/ Say it out loud to one stranger. Not a friend. A stranger. Watch where their eyes go. Where they look away is where the story has no gap. Where they lean in is where it does.
4/ Pick three hashtags and kill everything that does not sit under one of them. Your last twenty posts. Count how many belong. If it is under fifteen, you have been writing a diary in public.
5/ Find your object. The jacket, the chappal, the watch strap. One thing, yours, visible from across the room. If it feels like a costume, it is. Pick again.
6/ Run the barista test. Ask the last person you hired to tell your company’s origin story in two minutes. Record it on your phone. Then listen to it against your own version. The gap between the two recordings is your entire brand problem, measured.
That sixth one is the ask. Do it this week. Then mail me the two recordings at sg@c4e.in or through the contact page. I read every one and I will tell you, in three lines, which beat your new hire dropped and why. No pitch attached. If I want to work with you I will say so, and if I dont I will say that too. What the work costs is published, so nobody has to ask.
The last thing
I opened with the barista because I want to close with her.
She has never met Howard Schultz. She earns a wage and pulls shots and at some point somebody sat her down, in a training room in a suburb, and told her a story about a farmer and a roast and a year, and made her tell it back until it came out the same way every time. She did not decide to become a brand. She was handed one that was small enough to carry.
That is the job. Not the podcast, not the banner, not the posting schedule. Find the story. Cut it until it fits in a stranger’s hand. Rehearse it until it survives 3am. Then give it away, first to the ten people nearest you, and then to whoever asks.
If they can tell it without you in the room, you are done.
If they cant, you know what to do this week.
Questions founders ask about personal brand
What is a founder personal brand?
The story about the founder that other people can tell when the founder is not in the room. It has two parts: what people feel about you, and what they can repeat. Followers, posts and a colour palette are outputs. The brand is the residue.
How do you build a personal brand as a founder?
Five steps. Dig out the origin story in a two to three hour recorded interview. Draw its shape on Vonnegut’s axes and put the dip back in. Write it at thirty seconds, three minutes and fifteen minutes. Rehearse it until it survives a 3am wake-up. Hand it to your first ten hires and have them tell it back. Content comes after, once there is something to say.
What is the difference between a founder brand and a company brand?
The company brand is what the company promises. The founder brand is why anyone should believe the promise. Ashish Kila’s rule: build the founder brand first and it rubs off on the company. In deeptech the order flips a little: the data is the product and the founder story gets the right people to open the data room.
What are good examples of a founder personal brand?
Sara Blakely, who has told the same Spanx origin story for twenty years. Nithin Kamath, whose tweets and Zerodha’s no-advertising model are one sentence. Satya Nadella, whose learn-it-all line is now told by Microsoft managers who have never met him. Ratan Tata, whose story was told by others for fifty years and who posted 67 times on Instagram in total.
What are bad examples of personal branding?
Elizabeth Holmes and the borrowed turtleneck. Adam Neumann and a mission statement about consciousness on top of a subletting business. Byju Raveendran, whose teacher story drifted from the sales machine behind it. Travis Kalanick in the back of his own Uber. The pattern is the same: a hidden dip, a borrowed object, or a story and a business in different sentences.
Do introverts need a personal brand?
Yes, and it is easier for them. The brand is a story other people can tell, not a volume of posting. Kailash Nadh built one of the most respected engineering names in India through shipped code and a tech blog. Write one true story, hand it to ten colleagues, and you have done more than most extroverts.
What is Kurt Vonnegut’s shape of stories and why does it matter for founders?
Vonnegut drew stories as curves on two axes, good fortune against time: Man in Hole, Boy Meets Girl, Cinderella. A 2016 University of Vermont study of 1,327 Project Gutenberg stories found six basic arcs. Every founder pitch is drawn as a straight line up, and there is no such curve in Vonnegut or in the data. The dip is the part the listener retells.
Is the hero’s journey right for a founder story?
For the origin story, yes: Ordinary World, Call, Refusal, Threshold, Ordeal, Return. For the company story, no. The customer is the hero and the founder is the mentor. Mike Maples Jr and Peter Ziebelman put it plainly: the best entrepreneurs do not mistake themselves for the hero.
How long does it take to build a founder personal brand?
Six weeks to find, write and rehearse the story if the founder shows up. Ten years for the compounding Ashish Kila talks about. The first year has no tangible outcomes. It works anyway.
What does a founder storytelling engagement cost?
My fees are published on sgwashere.com. The first ninety minutes are free and under NDA. Founders who want viral content, a prettier version of a thin story, or reassurance that the story is fine already are the ones I say no to.
Who wrote this
Saurabh Garg. Entrepreneur and storyteller. Three startup exits, twenty years in marketing, a published novel, four bestselling authorised biographies as ghostwriter, and a weekly writing habit since 2004. I work between Dubai and Mumbai. I founded C4E in 2016 and run the founder practice at SG was Here. Most of what is in this piece was learnt in the room with founders, and the rest from one afternoon with Ashish Kila.
Credits as follow…
thoughts mine, from seven years of sitting with founders and one afternoon with Ashish Kila in 2019
words via Claude, edited by me
he storytellers named above did the hard work: Vonnegut, Campbell, Vogler, Harmon, Aristotle, Freytag, Duarte, McKee, Coats and Adams
Notes, thoughts and highlights from Week 36, 2026.
7 September 2026. Starbucks, Versova.
Writing this first thing on a Monday morning. Cos missed last week. And I dont want to miss two weeks in a row.
So, I had a long day yesterday and day before. On Saturday, I was part of a shoot. Then I hung out with my people. And then I went to meet some friends from MDI. And then, on Sunday I hung out with more friends and did more conversations. Mostly ok. And lot of ideas and insights.
The primary thing that am taking away from this week and weekend is that money talks. Everything is manageable and doable if you have the money. If there’s one thing that you want to take away from this post, let it be this.
Ok, now, onto regular programming.
The track of the week is Chal Chale. I am listening to this version (not the best audio). I love the rawness and grainyness of this version. I love the delay and distortion!
If you are a purist, you may want to listen to this one.
Ok, lets go!
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Highlights, reflections, updates, notes and thoughts from the week gone by.
1/ Update on the August Plan
I had decided that in August I will do the following…
Work more on WeAreC4E.com. Make it into a lead magnet for event piece for C4E.
I am thinking of shipping the CRM tool to the world. I find value in it. Let’s see if others will find value as well. So, I will make a landing page and will try to give demo to people and sell them a subscription. In case you want to buy, am selling it for $99 a year.
Make Book 2 shippable. It’s almost ready. Just that I need to make a pass thru it.
Operate in Eco Mode. And as a part of that, use cash as much as I can (against digital payments). Unless absolutely necessary. I want to add friction to the money spending thing.
I missed Book2. I think I will drop it off my plate. I dont think I have it in me to ship another book. Funnily, the ghostwriting piece seems to be working well. I have many open leads and healthy inbound (read that as 1 a week).
However, on C4E, despite my attempts (similar to the ones I made on ghostwriting), I’ve not been able to get outcomes. I think this is because the SEO piece on ghostwriting is easy.
Eco mode has been ok. I wont say I did well. But I was indeed mindful about my expenses.
I failed at the CRM tool. I took help from Krishna as well but together we failed. So I will park it. May come back to it in a few days. But for the time being, its parked.
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2/ The plan for September
We are one week in September and I feel I have derailed. I mean, I didnt plan for anything and I didnt get to make any large outcomes so far. Also the way life is, I think Sep will be in limbo. I will think about this during the week and in case by the next week I can think of something, I will update this.
If you have any ideas on what I could be doing, please lemme know.
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3/Food-Junkie
Lemme talk about myself here. Its a world-wide well-known thing that I have consistent struggle with fitness, diet control and all that. I am a man inspired by my quirks and vibes and I do things by the mood, than by the book. And one of the things that I can not stop doing is to eat snacks. You know, Kurkure and all that. Lets park this for a bit.
When I see folks who can’t help but have alcohol, substances, drugs etc etc, I often wonder why can they not simply control their urges and operate more mindfully. To a point that I judge people. And I would build associative conversations that by being a junkie, they are making the lives of their loved ones hell.
And I dont know when this epiphany happened that I am the same. I may not be abusing substances but i do abuse food. And I am a food-junkie. And I need to find a solution.
PS: NN Taleb says that two of the toughest addictions are sugar and salary. I quit salary a while ago and I need to cut sugar now. Help me with it!
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4/ PG on brevity
PG says, “AI will be especially fatal to writing that takes too long to get to the point. Now there will always be a more concise alternative, and 99% of readers will choose it.”
AI will be especially fatal to writing that takes too long to get to the point. Now there will always be a more concise alternative, and 99% of readers will choose it.
When PG says something, I stop everything and pay close attention. And this piece from him is like a death knell for me. I do not have the brevity muscle in me. I can’t make a point in less words. I ramble and rant and whine and meander and write like there’s no end. I get carried with the flow while I write and I assume that people who read me (handful) would like to go on the journey with me. I like to jump from topic to topic and I can even be in the realm of absurdism. And even in these times when people no longer have the attention span to read, I continued to think that some folks get joy from reading.
And if PG’s correct (he often is), I don’t stand a chance in the times to come.
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5/ Write More.
Continuing from the previous one, I think I want to write more. It’s one of those few activities that put me in the flow. I can often find myself lost in my thoughts and my head and keyboard when I am writing. To me, its one of the most high leverage actions that I take for my sanity.
Just that since I hypermaxxed on claude (see the image below), I’ve been spending all my laptop time on it.
Now, clauding is not a bad thing. But I know that it is not really “deep” work. I talk to it and I get some output that I flaunt. I am a mere orchestrator and a manager. I am not a maker. And at best, its an addiction and distraction. And nothing wrong with it. Just that I dont “create” things. I am not a maker. And unless I am a maker, well, I am no one.
The other thing about writing is that it opens doors for me. A lot of close friends and relationships have happened because people read what I wrote. People resonated and reached out. I could text them and send them links and they would react, reply and all that.
And I had fun. I hope everyone had fun. More than fun, at least I was full of gratitude. I was able to pull it off because I could pull in favors from people who believe in me. I got things for cheap, things fast, things easy. And people showed up. And they did better than they would at some other “commercial” thing. Another example of people create magic.
I cant name each person who worked hard but I can talk about some that come to mind. The start was Aoneha and Vikram to get an artist to agree to be a part of the shoot. Then I was able to ask for help from Sampat for the venue. Then Naman pitched in with bringing my vision to life with his work on AI. Raunak (and Sam) helped with the direction. Sampat’s team again pitched in to help me reduce the equipment rental cost.
No wonder they say it takes a village. And am I glad that this village exists!
PS: I am not happy about pulling favours and not paying people as much as I would have liked to pay. I know money is the grease. And I know I need to be able to more mindful about it.
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7/ Neelesh Misra
One my friends works with Neelesh Misra. And while we were chilling at my place on the weekend, I was taken down the memory lane to my time from around early 2010s.
I used to work in Gurgaon and commuted almost everyday from East Delhi. The ride would take me anywhere between 50 minutes and 3 hours depending on traffic. Mind you, this is pre whatsapp, pre Jio days and all I had was a Blackberry. And thus my constant companion was radio.
One of those companions was Yaad Sheher by Neelesh Misra. I remember I would time my drive from office to home to be able to catch up with the entire episode of Yaad Sheher. I loved the voice – right kind of balmy, right kind of warmth, right kind of passion. I loved the stories – rooted in small-town India, the kinds I could relate to. The kinds I can relate even now. I loved the curation of music. And the right-timing of the breaks in the story to keep me hooked. If I could, I would place Yaad Sheher up there in terms of the best things to have happened to entertainment.
It had no brain rot content, it had no gossip, it had no potshots, it had no one being dissed. And yet it hooked me. And probably many more people.
So yeah! Yaad Sheher ki yaad.
PS: Must give a shoutout to The Band Called 9. This is where I first heard magic of Shilpa Rao. And, on the way to work in the mornings, my companion was Saarthak (linkedin, insta) and Adam.
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8/ Mobile first
Plainly said, I want to use mobile to work and all.
Today, if I need to do anything, I need to get to my laptop. Even the simple task of booking a ticket requires me to use a laptop. And I see people making Oscar worthy films on broken phones. There are people who use a screenless Raspberry Pi devices to send rockets to space!
I dont know how I will do this. But I will try and get to it.
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9/ Broadcast list
On a whim, the other day I made a broadcast list on WA. Of all people who I want to keep posted about what’s up in my life. I did this cos I know that I suck with keeping in touch and I can not, not have people around me. So, I found the laziest way to do so!
Since I went to the beach a few times this week, I do have some photos. Plus, I did a shoot and thus there are photos.
As always, for people who ask.
Photo courtesy: Anshika Kushwaha. On a set that we put together for a collaboration between Collabor8 + C4E.
🏃➡️ Health
Not a good week. I could do 12 till a few days ago. Now am back to 1o. Lets see when I do more. Also, I made a bet with Rana to do 50 pushups till the next year.
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📈 The trackers of life
I didn’t track a lot to be honest. I will skip this, this week. Hope to be back with tracking next week, even with some travel and ambiguity.
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📌 So, what did I get done last few weeks? And what will I do next week?
A one-line report on what shipped. Not WIP.
Health. Sleep, food, movement. Worse than last week. Twelve pushups down to ten. Plus I met Purav and he pointed that my diabetes is now visible on my face. Sigh.
Book2 / Caravan Serai. No movement this week again.
Human Flag Pole. This week I walked more. And I reached up to a point that I could do 10 pushups on the trot. Lets see if I can continue with 10 for the next few days. I want to reach till 100.
Save a million dollars. No action to report.
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📅 One thing that defines the past week?
Busy.
I was about town!
The other words for this year have been: Skip, Routine (yeah same), Routine, Getting Back, Freedom, People, Motion, Show, Flow, Excitement, Embarrassment, Blur, Whiling, Movement, Activity, Regular, Easy, Journey, Downtime, Same, Drift, Routine.
Over and out. Until next Friday. SG
PS: This series of posts is inspired by Thej and his weekly notes. Previous editions from 2026 are: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 (missed these three), 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 (missed), 26, 27, 28, 29 (missed these three), 30, 31, 32, 33 (missed), 34, 35 (missed)
PPS: Please do point typos.
PPPS: In case you see me being inconsistent in anything – work, writing, reviews etc, PLEASE do point out.
Notes, thoughts and highlights from Week 34, 2026.
22-23 August 2026. Starbucks, Versova.
This is the first post on a new laptop. I will talk about the laptop in detail in a bit.
The last week has been, well, a blur. I dont recall where time went. I had the same routine – wake up, goto Starbucks, come back home, eat, sleep, while time etc.
One of the days I couldn’t sleep. I dont know why. And that day I sort of didnt do much. And then the regular life and cadence.
So that.
Ok, I dont know what else to write here. Lets get to the notes bit.
Highlights, reflections, updates, notes and thoughts from the week gone by.
1/ Update on the August Plan
I had decided that in August I will do the following…
Work more on WeAreC4E.com. Make it into a lead magnet for event piece for C4E.
I am thinking of shipping the CRM tool to the world. I find value in it. Let’s see if others will find value as well. So, I will make a landing page and will try to give demo to people and sell them a subscription. In case you want to buy, am selling it for $99 a year.
Make Book 2 shippable. It’s almost ready. Just that I need to make a pass thru it.
Operate in Eco Mode. And as a part of that, use cash as much as I can (against digital payments). Unless absolutely necessary. I want to add friction to the money spending thing.
I am glad to report that I have progress on 1 and 4. I couldnt push the CRM as much as I would have liked but that’s ok. You do some, you miss some. Last week, I had worked on 1, 2 and 4. Book seems out of bound.
PS: despite the Eco Mode, I got a new laptop. More on it shortly.
PPS: I dont have a plan for Sep. I dont plan to make it. Apart from the fact that I will be in Dubai. And in case I am unable to get to Dubai, I will spend Sep in either Goa or Singapore.
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2/ The New Laptop
I have a new M5 Pro. Not Air.
This is a big upgrade from the old M1 that I was running. I got it last night and I can feel the difference already. This is the second large investment I’ve made in myself after Claude happened (the first one is the Max account). And this is the MOST expensive thing that I’ve ever bought for myself.
Many thoughts on this one. Lemme try and articulate…
A – I didnt plan to get this one. Someone on MDI JFK wanted to sell a new laptop for cheap. I thought I would like to get a good bargain. I threw a 20% lesser number at him. And he bit the bullet. So that.
B – Since I’ve got Claude, I have started to feel the need for a faster machine. The M1 I was using was painfully slow. And thus I anyway had to get a new one. Just that I was delaying it for a future time. When I would have had the money. And then I said, fuck it.
C – I know I am in the Eco Mode. But to me, this is a business expense. And for the next 3 years. The last one was with me for almost 18 months. And the one before that was with me for 3 years. So I think we will be ok.
D – this is my first pro in years. I dont like the bulkiness of it. But I will make do with what I have.
And if you are reading this, please poing gaps in my thinking.
As part of my ghostwriting practise, Claude helped me come up with an idea to run a competition to uncover stories from diaspora.
And it came up with Storyhunt edition 1. In words of Claude,
Storyhunt is a public call for hidden stories from the Indian diaspora, compiled into a book. Submission form lives on sgwashere.com at /storyhunt/.
The idea is simple. If you are from the South Asian region and you live away from here and there’s a story worth telling, you must find a way to tell that. You may submit here.
PS: I am thinking, if this goes well, I will make it an annual thing. It gives me opportunity to talk to people, know more about them and write!
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4/ Writing
Since Claude happened, I havent written a lot. And I dont like it. And I want to get back to it. Starting coming week. I mean this week is almost over. I am thinking I will start writing about things that I deeply care about. Things like living a deliberate life, not chasing the rat race, finding a way to push things and seeing how the outcomes arrive at you.
Plus I want to use writing to help me get ahead with work and all. Think of it as “voice” of the founder. Just that I dont know what is it that I am founding 😀
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5/ Rejections at 66MGR and Yellow
The two current opportunities that I think are venture scale, 66MGRoad and Yellow, both got multiple rejections from multiple accelerators. Which is ok. The point of this rejection is that we’ve not been able to communicate the story well. For someone who calls himself a writer, this is not the best case scenario. I will push harder on this.
The other thing I realised is that my casualness while talking to people puts people off. And while this is a personality change, I think its one that I would like to make. You know, a strong opinion but loosely held.
I loved the fact that there are 20 people who came from as far as Mira Road and I dont know where all to nerd about a language. And were immersed in a conversation about words and nuances. The fact that I was able to put this together is my biggest win.
I must do more of these.
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7/ AMFIs annual report
The rare post about work.
I think this is the third year in the running that C4E has designed AMFI’s annual report. And each year we’ve set the standards higher than the last. Incredibly proud of what my people are able to pick up when left to themselves.
Neither of us is associated with Meru at this time but we’ve stayed in touch. And he asked if we could meet. I was ofc not keen (I didnt want to travel all the way and I know that I cant add any value to his life – he’s a senior and knows a lot) but he persisted and we met.
And I realised my folly immediately. I must make it a point to meet more people. All the online interactions and remote work is ok but real magic happens when you shake hands. At least for the next few months.
So back to Suraj. A tiny, one-hour interaction with him taught me so many lessons. Here’s the list.
A – Play to Win (or Play to Play). Suraj recommended the book, Play to Win. While there is a lot to compress, I think, for me, the biggest lesson was that you need to play to win. I tend to play to play. I often use Joker’s dialogue – “am a dog chasing cars”. Need to fix that.
And ofc, every rich person I know, plays to win. Every athlete plays to win. My friends who’re the most successful, play to win.
Suraj then gave an example from his book writing journey about how he’s implementing the play to win principles in his work.
Within this, the other lesson I got was to find a way to get to a maxima with your projects and ideas and chase that metric. This is one of those lessons that I keep getting from all people I know and I keep forgetting. I am glad Suraj reminded me of this.
B – Value of handshake. Suraj mentioned that he makes it a point to shake hands in real life. This is counter-intuitive to how I live and run. I think there’s a deeper lesson here.
PS: I went all the way to meet a friend who was exhibiting at an expo to shake his hand and came back.
C – Investing in People This I’ve done a lot. So am ok on this. And I dont want to spill more ink on this. If I can push you more, please read 1000 true fans.
D – Follow up On sales, he told me that most people lose deals cos they dont follow up. And I realised, am the same. A client says no, I move on. He said, go back to that client, ask them things, listen. Nothing new but I realised I wasnt doing it.
So that!
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9/ Other Notes and Links
Some notes and thoughts. In no order…
My initial euphoria over Claude is done. This means that I am not hunting for ideas to make revenue with. I dont have any at this time. But I am sure I will find some.
I gave gyaan to a few people this week – two founders of a women-first startup, a singer who’s trying to break out from the mold, a person whos lost her parents in COVID-19 and yet to come out of it. All these three conversations made me realise that I love it when am able to show path to people. I just hope I can do this with more.
I made a broadcast list on WA where I would over-share things that I should ideally talk to close friends on. But since my laziness is legendary, I’ve made a broadcast group. In case you’d like to be added to it, lemme know.
Guess this is it.
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📷 Photos from the week gone by
Some photos. As always, if you ask for those, you will get. And you miss 100% of the shots you dont take.
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📈 The trackers of life
This wasnt a good week for trackers. So while I will reproduce them here, you will see a lot of misses.
This is the daily one. I know a lot of misses.
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And this is the mood tracker that I maintain when I get the opportunity. I love that I have many greens and few reds. Shows that I have chosen to accept what comes my way.
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What do you see in it?
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🏃➡️ Health
I must pat on the back for the small win that I now do I pushups almost everyday. And just yesterday, I did 10 pushups on the trot. My posture is shit but I can do 10. Yay!
Ofc the target is 100 pushups. Lets see when I reach there.
Book2 / Caravan Serai. No movement this week again.
Human Flag Pole. This week I walked more. And I reached up to a point that I could do 10 pushups on the trot. Lets see if I can continue with 10 for the next few days. I want to reach till 100.
Save a million dollars. No action to report.
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📌 So, what did I get done last few weeks? And what will I do next week?
This is a one-line report on progress I made on various things that are important to me. I will only talk about things that I got done. Shipped. Not WIP.
So, this year, I want to track the following…
Health. Sleep, food, movement. Was better than the last week.
C4E / Work. Pick a thing to apply myself to. Still dont know what to apply myself to. I have been shuttling between 66MGRoad and Atlas Fractional.
Brand SG / Distribution. A lot of thinking but no action TBH. I have trained a Claude skill on it. Lets see what it creates for me.
I didnt have any other word to think of. The week went past and apart from Harshit’s show, each thing was like a skip thing for me. So that.
The other words for this year have been: Routine (yeah same), Routine, Getting Back, Freedom, People, Motion, Show, Flow, Excitement, Embarrassment, Blur, Whiling, Movement, Activity, Regular, Easy, Journey, Downtime, Same, Drift, Routine.
Over and out. Until next Friday. SG
PS: This series of posts is inspired by Thej and his weekly notes. Previous editions from 2026 are: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 (missed these three), 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 (missed), 26, 27, 28, 29 (missed these three), 30, 31, 32, 33 (missed)
PPS: Please do point typos.
PPPS: In case you see me being inconsistent in anything – work, writing, reviews etc, PLEASE do point out.
Notes, thoughts, reflections and highlights from Week 32, 2026.
10 August 2026. Home
I started writing this at Seema’s but I couldnt finish it. Lately I dont feel it at Seemas. I think I am done with it. I need to find a new place to hangout and work from. I can do Blue Tokai or the other Starbucks outlets that are close by. Lemme go to some new place today. Or may be not.
Also I wrote home while I adding the location. And made me think, what’s home? Where you grew up? Where your family is? In my case I dont even know what family is. Or is it the place where you rest for the night and get ready the next morning. I think the definition would differ for different people and it would be useful to know what it is. If you are reading this, tell me what’s home for you?
Wrote the following part yesterday…
I dont know what to write here. Days have been blur with work, dreams, routine. And while I like this normality, I am also craving for action. In fact, just a few day ago, I was pining for “getting life back on track” and settling into a routine and now I am talking about action. Well well well.
Anyhow, I am sure I will find things to talk about during the day.
Track of the week has to be this. Apart from the one below, you may want to check this one as well. Love these mashups. I think I got hooked on these after I spotted work from DJ NYK!
Anyhow, lessgo.
Highlights, reflections, updates, notes and thoughts from the week gone by.
1/ Update on the August Plan
Last week I wrote that, in August I will do the following…
Work more on WeAreC4E.com. Make it into a lead magnet for event piece for C4E.
I am thinking of shipping the CRM tool to the world. I find value in it. Let’s see if others will find value as well. So, I will make a landing page and will try to give demo to people and sell them a subscription. In case you want to buy, am selling it for $99 a year.
Make Book 2 shippable. It’s almost ready. Just that I need to make a pass thru it.
Operate in Eco Mode. And as a part of that, use cash as much as I can (against digital payments). Unless absolutely necessary. I want to add friction to the money spending thing.
From these, I made visible movement and progress 1, 2 and 4.
There’s an established cadence for content on wearec4e.com. Site has stared to rank. I need to now automate it.
On CRM, I am making more improvements and I think I would be able to publish it before August ends. This week I will find a name and host it.
Eco Mode has been ok as well.
So we are ok. The book remains the open point.
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2/ BrandSG
Few threads here.
A/ Been thinking about my brand for well over a week now and I dont have answers. Fro starters, I want to do a better linkedin profile for myself. And I’ve not been able to find an answer.
With most things, I’ve started to talk to people about it and I still dont have a solution.
B/ As part of brand, I want to rationalise and optimise all the raita that I have on the internet. Side note, I discovered that I was a fairly active user on Quora!
No, I am not saying I will stop posting. In fact I want to go wider. Just that I want to use the raita to help me get more opportunities. And when I say opportunities, I mean, I want to use the raita to help me do more on what I want to do. The raita has to expose me to more things. It has to throw ideas, opportunities etc at me. It must expand my luck surface area.
C/ Here’s a video that Suresh helped me make. Lemme know what you think. If this goes well, I will do more. If not, I will find something else.
D/ I will also trim whatsapp groups that I actively manage. The keyword is active. TBH I am ok to let the groups rot. But then I’ve found interesting connections and work and opportunities from these groups and I must thus do more of these.
Phew!
PS: For the brand piece, I’ve been talking to Keyur, Aruna, Suresh and the regular suspects about it.
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3/ Noise Cancellation Headphones
If you can invest in noise cancellation headphones, please do so. Its a 100X quality of life improvement thing. I use AirPods and I think I will use Claude to hack into the hardware. Taking a note. Wait. Why should I take a note? My taskmanager must!
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4/ Clean Slate
Over the last few days I’ve been “cleaning” my house.
This means I am throwing away nick nacks that I had saved over the years. This includes (and not limited to) postcards, tickets, boarding passes, books, electronic equipment, clothes, handyman tools and dunno what all. The intention is to reduce what I have to bare minimum. I didnt realise that I had accumulated so much. The minimalist in me turned over.
I do like unorganised mess (the table I am writing this on is a messy one but there’s some method. I can mostly tell you where is what on this table).
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5/ Links
I used Claude to dump all links that I’ve saved on my notes to a Google Docs. Here’s a list of 120 odd links. You may have to ask for access. And no, this is not an endorsement. Neither is this a list of things that I’ve read or worked on. But this is an overwhelming list of things that I wanted to read and then file them in various places.
The links for this week would include…
Vishal Khandelwal talking to Ankush Datar and Mihir Patki. Here.
Mark Manson talking about luck. This is a 3.5 hour long video. I saw a tiny part of a 35 min cut. Pradeep had to correct me. I dont think Ill see it. Someone in the comment summarized this. I am copy-pasting it here. Highlights mine.
Key Points to Remember After You Watch The Video. (Thank Me Later):
Luck is not just random chance, but comes in three different types: Heaven Luck, Earth Luck, and Human Luck (0:02:27).
Heaven Luck is about the things you cannot control, like where and when you were born, which can heavily influence your starting point in life (0:36:18).
Earth Luck is about the environment you create for yourself and how you position yourself to see more chances for success (1:05:27).
Human Luck is about the decisions you make every day and how you play the hand you are dealt to get the best results (2:10:48).
You can become luckier by having a positive attitude, which helps your brain notice more opportunities in the world around you (0:19:43).
Being consistent and building habits is a real way to succeed, rather than just waiting for a lucky break to happen (0:10:47).
You should try to show up to more events, join more groups, and meet more people to increase your personal luck surface area (0:46:06).
When you find an opportunity, you must act on it quickly and with all your effort to turn it into success (0:05:23).
Do not worry about things you cannot change, as that only wastes the energy you need for things you actually control (0:03:24).
Instead of blaming yourself for bad outcomes, focus on learning from your mistakes so you can do better next time (0:20:45).
Successful people often move to where the action is, such as choosing a big city or industry that has more potential (0:42:33).
In high stakes areas like business, small improvements can lead to huge results because of how the math of success works (0:52:07).
You should practice making your decisions explicit by writing them down, which helps you see errors in your thinking (2:54:37).
For big life decisions, spend a lot of time researching and planning, but for small ones, keep it simple and move fast (2:59:05).
Increasing the volume of your attempts can help you win more often because it reduces the impact of bad luck (3:10:04).
Treating your life like a portfolio of decisions helps you understand that one failure does not mean you are unlucky overall (3:13:38).
Using a gratitude journal where you reflect on potential good things helps prime your mind to spot lucky connections (3:43:33).
You can train yourself to be a lucky person by changing how you view the world and how you respond to challenges (0:08:26).
Luck often looks like hard work to others, but it is actually about knowing where and when to put yourself for the best chance (0:28:00).
At the end of the day, luck is simply when preparation meets an opportunity you were ready to take (3:47:48).
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📷 Photos from the week gone by
I am starting this back. I realised that I get immense joy when I am taking pics. I am not a patient person and takes me superhuman effort to get the shot right and then the edits is another battle. But when I see the outcome, I get giddy with joy.
So that.
Anyhow, here are a few shots from this week.
This was technically a few weeks ago. But I edited it last week.
Been trying to get this shot right for so many days. This is at Rangshila Theatre and each time I go there for a play, I try to get a shot.
There are more photos. I need to find a way to showcase those. Maybe insta. Let’s see.
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📈 The trackers of life 😀
Here’s my weekly review. Here’s the notes.
I know I have been inconsistent
I like how my sleep is fairly ok, both in terms of hours and recovery
The days I slept late and woke late, I swear I was working.
What do you see?
The other one is here…
Compared to the last week, all numbers are either same or gone up. Yay!
Book2 / Caravan Serai. No movement this week again.
Human Flag Pole. No action. Apart from pushups.
Save a million dollars. No action to report.
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📌 So, what did I get done last few weeks? And what will I do next week?
This is a one-line report on progress I made on various things that are important to me. I will only talk about things that I got done. Shipped. Not WIP.
So, this year, I want to track the following…
Health. Sleep, food, movement. Was better than the last week.
C4E / Work. Pick a thing to apply myself to. Still dont know what to apply myself to. But did some work for sure.
Brand SG / Distribution. A lot of thinking but no action TBH.
People. No action.
Book2. Nothing this week.
Shauk. Again, nothing.
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🏃➡️ Health
I’ve been pretty ok with push-ups. I can now do 5 pushups anytime anywhere. I want to be able to get to 10. I will start with hangs. I aim to get to a 2-min vertical hang. I can do about 5 3 seconds as we speak.
Apart from that nothing large.
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⏲️ Reminders from last few days
I am retiring this section. This has become a recap of the todo list and I dont want to have many lists at many places.
So you will not see this next week on.
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🗓️ So, one thing that defines the past week?
Routine again.
I did routine things and routine conversations and routine everything. I dont even have any specific, deep, large, thoughts or movements that I would want to report about.
The other words for this year have been: Routine, Getting Back, Freedom, People, Motion, Show, Flow, Excitement, Embarrassment, Blur, Whiling, Movement, Activity, Regular, Easy, Journey, Downtime, Same, Drift, Routine.
Over and out. Until next Friday. SG
PS: This series of posts is inspired by Thej and his weekly notes. Previous editions from 2026 are: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 (missed these three), 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 (missed), 26, 27, 28, 29 (missed these three), 30, 31
PPS: Please do point typos.
PPPS: In case you see me being inconsistent in anything – work, writing, reviews etc, PLEASE do point out.
2 Aug 2026. Seema’s Starbucks. I’ve been coming here everyday for the last week or so. Some normality has come back to life. I think as much as I like being a nomad, I also like the idea of being tethered at one place and living a boring life of routine. Talk of weirdness. Lol!
PS: Pradeep asked me what do I mean by “fix life”. This normality of having a routine is a component in fix life.
Ok, so a lot to talk about. Took much action over the last few days and I feel like dumping things somewhere. I mean I am dumping those onto my Roam and notes and all that but I still want to capture those.
Highlights, reflections, updates, notes and thoughts from the week gone by.
1/ A month in Dubai
I’ve decided that I will go live in Dubai for the month of Sep. It’s my 2131231th attempt to go build a life outside India. Let’s see if I am able to make it work this time.
While I am there for this tiny window, I will see if I can shift my personality to live in a place like Dubai where people expect everything to be polished and all that. Like I said, I am not sure and I will never find out till I actually do the hard thing.
Oh, and more than just the shift, I need to also think what I can apply myself to. Agency, AI transformation, 66MGRoad, Yellow, Writing, Or anything else. And if nothing else, a podcast 😀
PS: While editing this, Claude told me to build a clone of FlexingIt for Dubai market. Lol, so many ideas. So less time. Such easy desk execution now. What does a man do!
PPS: As I write this, there are news that the conflict is escalating and that means all my investments and plans will go down the drain. I remain an optimistic and I hope we would find some resolution soon.
PPPS: As I edit this, there are talks of de-escalation. Optimism Pro Max.
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2/ The August Plan
While September is Dubai (and thus things around there), here’s my plan for August…
Work more on WeAreC4E.com. Make it into a lead magnet for event piece for C4E.
I am thinking of shipping the CRM tool to the world. I find value in it. Let’s see if others will find value as well. So, I will make a landing page and will try to give demo to people and sell them a subscription. In case you want to buy, am selling it for $99 a year.
Make Book 2 shippable. It’s almost ready. Just that I need to make a pass thru it.
Operate in Eco Mode. And as a part of that, use cash as much as I can (against digital payments). Unless absolutely necessary. I want to add friction to the money spending thing.
I will add more as they come.
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3/ Udipt and Himanshu
On 66MGRoad, these two boys are helping me move things. And I’ve been proven very wrong by these guys at a lot of places. I want to make a list but I think that is beyond this blog. At this time, I merely want to acknowledge and document that I was wrong.
Also they taught me the value of doing things with Brute Force. And reminding me of PG’s do things thats dont scale.
Thank you, boys.
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4/ Eco Mode
I have activated Eco Mode in life.
This meant that I’ve cut EACH expense that is not required. This means, I have expensive memberships and I will downgrade on things where am paying to get special access (you know, lounges, clubs etc). I am also more mindful and I am eating at home. And I am increasingly tempering my spends at Starbucks. Irony, I am sipping onto a 400 bucks coffee while I write this.
Among these, the one that hurt the most was cancelling AMEX. Couple of reasons TBH.
A, I spend about 75K on it per year, just to get access to the card. I can get Claude for that much ;P. The add ons they offer dont really add a lot. I dont think I’ve used any of their additional services. I will find out ;P
B, Over time the service had really degraded. Like one time I didnt have my card on me and they denied me access to their otherwise empty lounge.
I know it will be tough to get this again. But I had to get it as an ego thing. I got it. And they were not able to offer me enough value to retain them when the times turn bad for me. Compare this to Claude. I am thinking of getting an even higher tier than that 200 USD Max!
Oh, this is true for people and relationships too. I’ve often see myself getting cut when I stop offering value. In fact, I’ve been cut even when I was valuable. Lol!
PS: like I said above, I will use as much cash as I can in all of August, to know and see how am I spending.
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5/ Previous Weekly Reviews
I dont know why but I was seeing older posts on these weekly reiews.
And I realized that they were more layered, nuanced and revealed more about my thinking and were not merely reporting. I think since I got busier I started to cut corners. Starting with this one, I will get back to more verbose, more long-form notes where I talk about a lot more than mere reports.
Lemme know what you think.
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6/ Ideal End State
I met Dr H this week. She asked me what do I really want from life and in life. And while elaborating on it, she asked me if it was a lavish home, people, money, power or something else. And when she further elaborated it, I realised it was something VERY similar to Kevin’s Ideal End State.
Made me think.
And here’s my articulation of how I want my life to be. PS: Note 2 self – my more private ideal end state document is here.
My answer will always start from the Kabir couplet.
Sai itna dijiye, jaame kutumb samaay, main bhookha naa rahoon, sadhu na bhookha jaaye
And if I were to tangibalise it, I would say,
Enough to not think about spending money. I anyway don’t splurge. I spend on mid-level comforts (business class travel etc). I think I would glad if this number is in high three-digit USD millions.
Enough to support friends, family and acquaintances with things that they need. Need. Not want.
Live without needless drama. In a place that gives me AC (or is cold without AC). I dont know what this location could be.
Some work that allows me to travel the world and meet people. And with time, people who are at the top of their games. I remember Chamath or someone mentioned that the world is run by 150 people. I dont want to run the world would but I would love to know some of those.
Support and be a patron to people who’re pushing the baton with art, music, entertainment, films etc.
Of course there is more. The private link above has a longer list.
What do YOU really want? What’s your ideal end state?
PS: An argument against this ideal end state is that I want to enjoy the journey and not work towards a destination. And while I do things that take me close to my ideal end state, I want to continue to optimise for day to day joy.
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7/ Lessons from HelioCoach
I’ve never talked about this our loud but here I am.
For context, I pulled together a team of friends and well-wishers and built a consumer mobile app for supplementation compliance. You may see it at heliocoach.com.
Of course the market is crowded but I thought I could find a place and build a business. We wanted to get just about a few hundred dollars each month and that would have made us enough to keep the team going. You know, Ramen money!
We did each thing that all the startup gurus say — content, ebook, influencers, founder branding etc etc. And yet we were unable to make any dent anywhere.
Of course, I take it in the stride. And I did get something from it.
Here’s a list…
Aarya
Confidence that any app can be made using Claude. I am using that confidence to build 66MGRoad now. And Chandni and Aarya are now building Yellow.
Lessons on importance of distribution. This has been on my radar for like decades but I havent moved my ass on it.
Awareness that I am unable to push people I love. As the originator of idea and “leader” of the team that was working on this idea, I take all the blame for the non-success of the app. And I learnt that unless I push, I wont be able to take things far. This is something that Nakul also mentioned. That unless you are a gunda in your team, you wont be able to move things forward.
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8/ Nims. And Mt Everest
The mountains took Nimsdai away. I am sad about it and my thoughts are with his family. This tweet from Barsha expresses the agony and anguish that I feel in words far better than me.
Also, lemme talk about something else here. Lemme make this about me.
When I was young (around 2013 or 14), I read somewhere that years are long and decades are short. And at that time I made a promise to myself and the world. That I will do three things – make a billion dollars, impact a billion lives and climb Mt Everest. And I will take 10 years to do that. This 10-year deadline expired on Jan 1, 2026. And ofc, I didnt do any of these three. While I am hopeful that I will do the first two, I’ve given up on Mt Everest.
Many reasons. Lemme try to articulate.
a/ I dont have it in me. It’s plain simple acceptance of defeat and humbling down that comes with it.
b/ I did go to the Everest base camp (in 2021) and I sort of understood that it’s not for me and thus worth the effort. This could be my justification-brain talking here but a shot at Everest would have taken me a few years of all-in training and a lot of money. I know there are serious hobbyists who’ve done it. But I am not like them. I am easily distracted and have way too many interests to go all-in into one of those.
So, I gave up.
Mind you – this could be my defeat talking. So read with that bias please.
c/ I realised that Everest was a bragging conversation more than anything else. I come from Delhi and Haryana and like most people from there, I love to talk. And this means that I would have spoken it out loud in some conversation. So, that!
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9/ Rant on Reading
I grew up with comic books and novels (my father used to read potboilers from Surendra Mohan Pathak and all) and then once I went to MBA, I got to read more. And with time reading habits evolved. Till the last few years. When my reading habits changed.
I stopped reading books unless they were recommended by a lot of people I respect.
Most of my reading then became blogs, newsletters and all that. And then that stopped too. Not because there was so much to read but because I found “better” way to read. By seeing videos, talking to people and tinkering and all that. And for my use case, this works well. So I never picked books again.
Plus I’ve been distracted a lot. I have immense respect for people who’re able to do things while battling personal things. I can either keep the kitchen running for myself. Or I can think deep about things. Lately i’ve become acquainted with a young woman, Drishti. She does brilliant work at work and for her personal projects. I dont know how she gets the time. Or find the energy. Or may be its easy once you have a job that gives you a fixed fee for a fixed time you rent there. There are times when I regret my decision to not take a job and use my non work time to meander. But then I think about how we as humans weren’t really supposed to take jobs and all that. It’s just a construct to keep the fire burning.
Ok am rambling. Moving on.
PS: This means that my reading list and the TIL group that I run is dying a slow death. I am just glad that Pradeep keeps me posted on important things around the internet!
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10/ Claude
While I was doing an edit pass, I realised that I hadnt talked baout Claude. And I must! After all, thats where I spend a lot of my time and attention. I have nothing specific to write this week. My tokens got Maxxed on a Tuesday or something (reset happens on Thursday) and I felt like one arm has been taken away from me 🙁
And since it came back on a Thursday, am back on it with a vengeance! Yay!
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📷 Photos from the week gone by
Available on request :D.
But I have to place this here.
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📈 Trackers…
Here are one.
Love that there’s good recovery (I suspect Whoop is misfiring), green on emotions and about 6-7 hours of sleep on an average.
Also notice the pushups row. I do sets of 5 thru the day. Aim is to get to 100 pushups in a day (through the day) and then grow sets to 10 and then more.
Book2 / Caravan Serai. No movement this week. I will pick this in August.
Human Flag Pole. I’ve started with push-ups. Its nothing tbh but some action for sure.
Save a million dollars. No action to report.
📌 So, what did I get done last few weeks? And what will I do next week?
This is a one-line report on progress I made on various things that are important to me. I will only talk about things that I got done. Shipped. Not WIP.
So, this year, I want to track the following…
Health. Sleep, food, movement. Bad. Many weeks running.
C4E / Work. Pick a thing to apply myself to. Reworked on C4E website. Added some content. Made some progress on 66MGR.
Brand SG / Distribution. No action TBH.
People. No action.
Book2. Nothing this week.
Shauk. Again, nothing.
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🏃➡️ Health
No large actions apart from eating first meal post 12, taking supplements on time (Just popped the Vit D 60000 IU tab), some pushups. Which is a LOT tbh, compared to what I am typically on.
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⏲️ Reminders from last few days
Thanks to Claude and sgTasks, I dont forget things. However like most things that you stop thinking about, often they become blind spots and you dont even think about those. And I’ve found that thinking about things in the liminal often gives you great clarity.
Eventually this list will get longer. But at least it’s a start.
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🗓️ So, one thing that defines the past week?
Routine.
The other words for this year have been: Getting Back, Freedom, People, Motion, Show, Flow, Excitement, Embarrassment, Blur, Whiling, Movement, Activity, Regular, Easy, Journey, Downtime, Same, Drift.
So that. Over and out. Until next Friday. SG
Oh, and this too shall pass.
PS: This series of posts is inspired by Thej and his weekly notes. Previous editions from 2026 are: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 (missed these three), 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 (missed), 26, 27, 28, 29 (missed these three), 30
PPS: Please do point typos.
PPPS: In case you see me being inconsistent in anything – work, writing, reviews etc, PLEASE do point out.
26 July 2026. Back home. At Seema’s Starbucks. Was away for about 15 days. Large part of it was in Colombo. And now that am back, am trying to not go anywhere for the next 30 days. Lets see how it goes.
So, I am in that funk right now. Whats the utility of writing this. No one reads this. AI creates lot of slop. Even I dont do as much mehnat as I must while I write things. And the primary reason for writing this is to get gunk out of my head. That’s happening anyway cos I journal a lot and take notes and talk it out. And of course I am forgetful, so that helps.
So that. Lets start writing and see where it takes us.
Oh, I almost forgot. The track of the week is this. This version is ever better. You decide.
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Highlights, reflections, updates, notes and thoughts from the week gone by.
1/ The monthly “focus”
I started this last month on where I would talk about what I want to do in the upcoming month.
In the months of Jun and Jul, I had decided to work on these…
Revenue from Claude
66MGRoad
Fix CA for C4E
Distribution
Caravan Serai
56 Hours
Lean onto Claude to run my life
Worldly problem
Poker
Public Speaking
Fitness
Fix 25
This must look like a long list but I can put them into three clusters only – work, play and health. The first four are work, next six are play and last two are health. And each feeds into another.
Even though these are clusters, I do think that I need to trim these. Thanks to friends and special thanks to Pradeep (he told me today morning that my “top three” things have four things in it), I will try to reduce these.
So, in the month of August, I plan to work on just one thing in each bucket. Here they are…
Work – 66MGRoad
Play – AI tools and all that
Health – Keto Diet for a month. Starting today. Ok, tomorrow please. I feel like Thepla and all that today : D
So, that.
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2/ CJP
Cockroaches have run wild and they brought the change they were seeking! Wow!
So, I need to admit something. All my life, I’ve never been in support of dharnas, blockages, strikes and all that. In fact, I would argue (in close quarters of course) that these do more harm than good. And I’ve never overtly supported any public movement. Not because I dont want to. But because of two things.
a/ I dont have the balls. Simple.
b/ I am not informed enough to take a stand. And this is true not just for protests or any political conversations but for everything that needs deep thinking. I operate at the surface. I hide behind my articulate ass and skirt the real issue. Plus, it was never gonna impact me anyway – I am male, old, self-employed and all that. And each time I was asked by people, I would make a “wise” comment about my being apolitical and move on.
However, CJP and the movement has shown what it means to have a spine. Young people decided on something and they came out in numbers and they showed what it meant to have spine. I know there are conversations about the movement having bad actors, influence from deep state, hidden agendas and I dont know what all. But, the fact of the matter remains that The Minister of Education had to put in his papers. If this is not change and impact. I dont know what is.
And I must learn.
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3/ Colombo. And home.
Like I said in the beginning, I was in Colombo for a few days.
I must admit that I quite liked my time there. I even made a new friend, who I hope to stay in touch with. In fact, I told SO that we must live in Colombo / Sri Lanka for an extended period. I dont know when I’d be able to do that but it’s definitely on the cards (as long as I dont forget).
Colombo gave me everything that I wanted. Coffee shop (they dont have Starbucks, there’s Barista and Java Lounge), nice people, India-like cost of living, safety (at least the parts I was in, I didn’t feel unsafe), India timzone, modern conveniences (nots just supermarkets but they also have PickMe, an Uber like services that delivers people and restaurant orders alike) and good food. The only complaint I have is shitty internet. I am assuming that will get fixed with time.
Oh, I took my parents as well, to get to the Hindu trail. Wrote about it here, specifically from the lens of making an itinerary for old parents. Should you choose to go there with your parents, please do ask me.
I am taking a human proctored one in the next week.
Once I get the results, I will have proven beyond doubt that my inability to focus on one thing is as medical condition. No, I dont plan to take meds. I will find a way to solve for things without that.
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5/ Survival for another month
Thanks to an unplanned project, we survive yet another month!
Which is good and bad.
Good – that we survived.
Bad – that I am stuck in this survival mode for years now. 20 years to be precise. I dont know how to get out of this. And I have tried everything including a lot of self-imposed, self-love. And even though I believe I am smart, I am still poor. This is a genuine, from the depth of my heart question that I really need an answer on.
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6/ Claude
How can I write my weekly note and not talk about Claude?
Even though I was away, I did some Clauding. And the list of chats and projects is getting longer. And the amount of revenue I’ve made remains 0. But one thing has moved and I am probably not giving it enough weight. I’ve acquired three projects to help businesses get more efficient with Claude.
Here’s a list.
I am helping a finance company optimise their speed to market and enable the sales team to focus only on sales and give up all the reporting, updating etc etc to a custom built tool.
I am working with a manufacturing company that has plants across the country to save the time of their accounting department by building tools to reconcile things faster.
I am helping a corporate gifting company do better by building a CRM tool purpose built for them and for their use case.
All these are pilots and if these work well, I’d try to convert these into a service layers. Oh, and apart from this, I’ve made a personal CRM tool (for other superconnectors as well), a task manager, an accountant and more for myself. I hope to build these into standalone products and offer them for sales.
So, I may very well be able to pivot into an AI-enabled transformation service provider. I just need to get sure of the outcome before I make it commercial. And I need to figure that it’s a large enough opportunity. I could be a McKinsey 2.0 for SMEs and traditional businesses!
Here’s a request – in case you have a problem that you’d like to be automated with the help of AI, please do let me know. I will not charge you anything. Really.
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📷 Photos from the week gone by
Since I was in Colombo, I did take a lot of photos. And as always, available on request. Lemme know if you want those.
Here’s a teaser…
📈 Trackers…
No trackers for this update. I didnt capture data TBH. Hoping to get back to this from this week on.
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✅ Action on LARGE objectives for the year
In this section, I capture progress on the large objectives for the year. Going forward. I will also add monthly priorities. I suspect, if I keep going like this, I will end up with an OKR system of my own.
Book2 / Caravan Serai. Book 2, draft 1 is done. I had finished it before I went to Colombo. But I am not confident enough to unleash it in the world. I will work on it in Jul-Aug and get it ready.
Human Flag Pole. No action.
Save a million dollars. No action worth reporting. I am just grateful that I survived this month.
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📌 So, what did I get done last few weeks? And what will I do next week?
A one-line report on things I got done. Shipped. Not WIP.
Health. Sleep, food, movement. Nothing to be honest. Travel screwed this. Need to find a way to keep consistent on these things while I travel.
C4E / Work. Regular things. Nothing large to report.
Brand SG / Distribution. No action. We did release a few videos. See them here.
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People. Spoke to some friends. Talked to some contacts. Used my CRM tool to reignite some connections. Love that!
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🏃➡️ Health
Nothing large to report. Status quo.
Trying to self -administer some meds and supplements and all that. I am still unable to find a way to work out. I’ve tried almost all shapes and sizes of inspiration and motivation and all that to get to learn. But I havent been able to 🙁
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⏲️ Reminders from last few days
Same as the last few weeks. Parking this section.
The only saving grace is that I’ve built myself a tool on Claude that helps me not lose track of things. At some point in time, I want to build public showcases of these tools to help people become better.
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🗓️ So, one thing that defines the past week?
Getting back.
The other words for this year have been: Freedom, People, Motion, Show, Flow, Excitement, Embarrassment, Blur, Whiling, Movement, Activity, Regular, Easy, Journey, Downtime, Same, Drift.
So that. Over and out. Until next Friday. SG
Oh, and this too shall pass.
PS: This series of posts is inspired by Thej and his weekly notes. Previous editions from 2026 are: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 (missed these three), 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 (missed), 26, 27, 28, 29 (missed these three).
PPS: Please do point typos.
PPPS: In case you see me being inconsistent in anything – work, writing, reviews etc, PLEASE do point out.
PPPPS: This wasnt the best weekly update but I really had nothing else to write. Hopefully, ill have something large to report from the next week on.
My parents and I ran the Ramayana trail in Sri Lanka for two old parents. The stops that work for old legs, the one to skip, the real cost. One honest guide.
So if you grew up in an Indian house in the eighties or the nineties, you did not read the Ramayana. You watched it, well, religiously. It was a sunday ritual for my fam and I remember we used to plan our life around the time for the Ramayana to beam. I am told that oldies would even sit on the floor, with their hands folded and look up to Arun Govil as Lord Rama.
My parents are that generation. And somewhere at the back of their heads, Lanka was never a country you could fly to. It was the far end of the story. The place where Sita was held hostage. Where the bridge (Ram Setu) went. Where it all came to a head. And you do not book a ticket to a myth.
Except you can!
It is ninety minutes from India. They call it Sri Lanka now, the myth has an address and a ticket counter and a man outside selling king coconut for two hundred rupees. So i took them there.
This blog is a an honest version of things I wish someone had told me before i went with my parents. Where to go, what to skip, what it costs, how to keep two old people warm, fed and upright across four days of temples in the hills. i have written one long guide like this before, for remote work from Goa. Consider this the pilgrimage cousin.
The problem nobody tells you about the Ramayana trail
Here is the honest bit. The Ramayana trail in Sri Lanka is real, it is well marked, and it is written for the wrong person, almost all of it.
Search it and you get tour operators. Eight nights, eleven nights, a coach, a group of forty, a rock climb at seven in the morning, a temple at nine, another at eleven, lunch on the bus. It reads like a school trip. It is built for legs that do not think about steps.
My parents think about steps now. Not in a sad way. but in a more pragmatic one. How many. How steep. Is there a rail. Is there somewhere to sit at the top, or do we turn and come straight back down through the same crowd.
And this I found is something that not one operator itinerary respects!
For example, after I read websites, the first plan i made had Sigiriya in it. The big rock. Twelve hundred steps, a spiral staircase bolted to a cliff, no lift, sun the whole way up. i had it on day two like it was nothing. Then i pictured my parents on step four hundred, in the heat, a queue behind them and no way down except through it, and i took it off the list.
So this guide has a bias and i want it on the table. It is built for people above the ages of 65. And not for younger folks with go pros and insta accounts.
Why Sri Lanka, and not India, for the Ramayana with old parents
The Ramayana has two halves and two geographies. There is Rama’s half, the India half. Ayodhya, Chitrakoot, the forest years, Nashik, Hampi, down to Rameswaram where the bridge begins. And there is Sita’s half. The captivity. Lanka. That half sits in Sri Lanka, and for old parents it is, without much competition, the softer pilgrimage.
Three reasons, and they all matter more at seventy than at thirty.
One. it is small. The sites you want sit inside one tidy loop. Colombo, up to Kandy, up again into the hills at Nuwara Eliya, and back. (Here is the loop on the map.) Three or four nights, one car, one driver, one road. You are never more than a few hours from a bed. Compare that to the India circuit, which is a country and a half of trains and a month you do not have.
Two. it is easy to get into. Indians get an ETA to get into Sri Lanka, the electronic travel thing, and for long stretches it has been free (do not trust me, trust the government portal, because the fee comes and goes with the season). Ninety minutes from most of south India. Your parents are not on a plane long enough to seize up. In my case, the flight was almost 4 hours cos we are in Delhi.
Three. And this is the one that matters. it is Sita’s half. This is where she was held in the ashok vatika. Where she is said to have bathed in a cold stream. Where she walked through fire to end the argument about her. Where Hanuman came over the water looking for her and, finding her, set about the place. If your parents grew up on the story, this is the emotional half, not the sightseeing half. Rama gets the statues. Sita gets the ground under your feet. For the right Indian parent, standing on that ground does something a photo of a far grander temple never will.
The catch, and there is always a catch, is that Sita’s half sits high up. Most of the good stuff clusters around Nuwara Eliya, an almost a hill station, bangi nthe middle of the country.
Getting there…
Fly into Colombo. Bandaranaike airport is up the coast, about forty five minutes north of the city.
Now the decision. How do you move three people, two of them old, around this island for four days. There are three answers and only one of them is right.
Trains. Beautiful, cheap, world famous, the Kandy to Ella hill line is on every list of great train rides on earth. Also the wrong answer for old parents. The famous stretch is packed, the platforms have steps and gaps, the good photos come from hanging out of a door, and you cannot control when your mother needs a toilet on a three hour ride. Do one short scenic hop if they are up for it, as a treat, not as transport.
Buses. Lol. No. Next.
A car with a driver for the whole loop. This is the answer. One price, door to door, four days, one man who knows the roads and where the clean toilets are. We paid about eighty thousand Sri Lankan rupees, about twenty three thousand of ours, for the entire loop with a good driver in a comfortable car. Split across the trip it is nothing, and it is the single best thing you can do for old knees. No station steps. No lifting bags. No standing. The car becomes the moving base camp: the meds live in it, the shawls live in it, the water lives in it. When someone is tired, the car is right there.
Book it through your hotel or a known operator, not a man at the airport. Tell them straight: two senior citizens, we go slow, we stop for toilets, we are not racing to tick a list. A good driver hears that and re-times the whole day around it. Ours did.
One more thing before the sites. Money. Carry some Sri Lankan rupees for temples, tips and coconuts, but cards work easily in hotels and the bigger shops. Keep small notes.
The loop, day by day, the way we ran it
Here is the shape. Move the nights around to taste, but do not compress it. Old people plus altitude plus winding roads means you build in slack, not squeeze it out.
Day 0, land in Colombo. Arrive, do nothing. If the flight lands you with daylight to spare, the one stop worth making on the way in from the airport is Kelaniya, which sits on that side of the city. Otherwise, hotel, dinner, early night. Colombo is warm and flat and a kind place to start.
Day 1, Colombo to Kandy. Three, four hours on the road, on a slow climb inland. Break it. Reach Kandy by afternoon, see the lake, and if there is an evening cultural show with the drums and the fire dancers, go, because it is seated, indoors, forty five minutes, and the pace old people enjoy. We paid 3500 LKR per head for it and it was worth every one.
If they are up for one more, the Temple of the Tooth Relic by the lake is Kandy’s big one, flat and grand and used to old pilgrims, though it draws a crowd, so go early or late.
Day 2, Kandy up to Nuwara Eliya. This is the big climb and the prettiest, hardest drive. Three hours of the road folding back on itself through tea country. This is the day to break at Ramboda for the Hanuman temple and lunch (at the temple itself). You reach Nuwara Eliya by mid afternoon, into cold you were not ready for. Rest. Do not schedule a temple for that evening. Let them adjust to the altitude and the chill.
Day 3, the Sita cluster. The heart of it. Seetha Amman, the ashok vatika ground, Hakgala garden, Gayathri Peedam, and Divurumpola. Do not do all of them in one manic sweep. Two in the morning, a long sit-down lunch, one or two after a rest. This is the day the trip is for. Give it room.
Day 4, back down. Out of the hills toward Colombo or the airport, with the last easy stops on the way. Everyone tired in the good way. You fly out with your parents having stood, feet on the floor, on the ground from the story.
You can do it in three nights if you must. You should not. The whole point of travelling with old people is that the slack is not wasted time. The slack is the trip.
The stops that work for old legs
Now the sites. For each one i will give you the story, because the story is why your parents came, and then the honest access note, because the access is why some of them will or will not manage it. Maps linked so you can hand the pin straight to your driver.
1/ Kelaniya Raja Maha Vihara, near Colombo
Photo: Jorge Láscar from Australia. CC BY 2.0. via Wikimedia Commons
Start or end here, because it sits on the airport side of Colombo and folds into the first or last day. (Kelaniya on the map.)
The story. When the war is over and Ravana is dead, it is his brother Vibhishana who is crowned king of Lanka. Vibhishana had crossed over to Rama’s side, and depending on which uncle is telling it at which family lunch, he is either the righteous one or the brother who switched teams. Kelaniya is tied to his coronation. The painted walls inside carry Buddhist stories too, because it is a living Buddhist temple, but for a Ramayana trip it is the quiet last chapter. The good brother, the throne, the peace after all that blood.
The access. A big flat courtyard, a few steps (about 50) at the shrine, shoes off at the door. Thirty, forty minutes at a slow wander. Clean, calm, used to visitors. A gentle first taste of what shoes-off temple-going in Sri Lanka feels like, before you get to the harder hill stops.
2/ Bhaktha Hanuman temple, Ramboda, on the Kandy road
This one earns its spot by geography as much as by story. It sits on the long climb from Kandy to Nuwara Eliya, run by the Chinmaya Mission, with a sixteen foot Hanuman cut in granite and tea slopes dropping away on every side. (Ramboda Hanuman on the map.)
The story. This is Hanuman country. The hills where he is said to have searched for Sita, the giant leap over the water, the burning tail, all of it lives in this stretch. The temple is newer and calm and the setting does most of the work: you are high up, tea in every direction, mist coming and going across the slopes.
The access. Middling, and worth knowing before you commit. There is a flight of steps up to the shrine (about 60 again). Take it slow, there are places to sit, and the reward at the top is the view!
Ensure you have lunch at the temple. At 500 LKR per head and what great food! Which you should, because it turns this into your lunch stop and breaks the three hour drive at the right place. Time it for the middle of Day 2.
3/ Seetha Amman temple and the Ashok Vatika, Sita Eliya
The heart of the whole trail, and the reason old parents go quiet and blame it on the cold. (Seetha Amman on the map.)
The story. Seetha Amman is the one temple on the island given over to Sita herself. The ground around it is held to be the ashok vatika, the grove where Ravana kept her all those months, under guard, refusing him, waiting. A stream runs past where she is said to have bathed. On the rocks across the water people point out round marks and call them Hanuman’s footprints, from when he came and found her and told her Rama was on his way. Inside sit the idols. Rama, Sita, Lakshman, Hanuman. Your parents will stand in front of these longer than anywhere else on the trip. Let them.
The access. Gentle, with one trap. The temple is right off the road and the walk to it is short and flat. The trap is the stream and the boulders. Do not send old knees scrambling down and across to see the footprints up close. It is slippery, uneven, and there is nothing down there the eye cannot get from the top. Look from above. The temple is the thing, not the rocks.
A kilometre from Seetha Amman, on the slopes of Hakgala, sits a botanical garden that local telling also folds into the ashok vatika story. (Hakgala Garden on the map.)
The story. Same grove, wider frame. Some tellings put the place Sita was held right here on these hillsides. Whether you buy the geography or not, it is a cool, quiet, colonial-era garden, and it gives your parents a green, non-temple hour in the middle of a templey trip.
The access. Manageable if you are sensible about it. The lower garden is flat, broad, and one of the calmest walks of the trip. The upper garden climbs, and you skip the upper garden. Stay low, sit on the lawns, let them breathe the cold clean air. The reserve forest above is closed to the public anyway, so nobody has to feel they left a harder walk undone. Tickets ran us about LKR 3500 per head for non Lankans.
You can even rent a Golf Cart for about 1000 LKR.
5/ Gayathri Peedam, Nuwara Eliya town
In the town itself, so no drive and no climb, which makes it the right stop for a tired afternoon between the outdoor ones. (Gayathri Peedam on the map.)
The story. This is the darker corner of the epic. Gayathri Peedam is tied to Meghanath, Ravana’s son, also called Indrajit, the one who almost turned the war. He is said to have done his penance to Shiva here, earned his boons, and carried them into battle against Rama’s army. A working Hindu temple, warm priests, an indoor calm. There is something in standing for a minute in the villain’s son’s corner of the story, the part the circuits rush past.
The access is about 80 steps. Indoor, seated, warm, in town.
6/ Divurumpola, the place of the oath
The quietest stop, and for a lot of parents the one that lands hardest. It sits a little out of Nuwara Eliya toward Welimada. (Divurumpola on the map.)
The story. Divurumpola means place of oath in Sinhala. This is held to be where Sita walked through fire, the agni pariksha, to end every last doubt about where she had been and with whom. She came through it. It is a Buddhist temple now, flat, with a small stupa and painted panels running the trial along the wall. Here is the detail your parents will love. An oath sworn at Divurumpola is still treated as binding in local custom, real enough that disputes have been settled on this spot. Tell them that as they stand in front of the fire panels. Watch them stay a while longer.
The access. Kind. Flat ground, a short calm walk, benches, shade. The gentlest of the hill stops, and a fitting one to close the Sita cluster on.
The one to skip, and why that is not a defeat: Sigiriya
Let me come back to that rock. Sigiriya. The lion rock, the fifth century sky palace, the single most photographed thing in Sri Lanka. (Sigiriya on the map, if you are stubborn.)
It is about twelve hundred steps to the top. A steep metal spiral staircase clamped to the rock face, open to the sun, two and a half hours up and down at a sane pace, and there is no lift, no chair, no way to the summit that is not those steps. Travellers in their seventies do make it, slow, with a lot of rests, and they are proud of it and they should be. But most old parents will not, and building a whole day around whether they can is a mistake.
Here is the freeing part. Sigiriya’s link to the Ramayana is thin. Some tellings tie the rock to Ravana, some do not, and it is an ancient king’s fortress that got adopted into the trail because it is spectacular and it is on the way north. So skipping the climb costs you almost nothing on a Sita pilgrimage. If someone in the group wants a taste, they can go up to the Lion’s Feet, the wide terrace about halfway, sit under the giant carved paws, take the view, and come back down. A fair compromise, and a far shorter one. Do not put the summit on an old person’s day. That is the whole lesson of this post in one rock.
Back to that number. One thousand eight hundred and sixty eight metres. Nuwara Eliya is proper hill-station altitude, as high as many of the hill stations you have taken your parents to in India, and colder at night than you will expect. Nobody tells you, because everyone sells Sri Lanka as a beach.
What the altitude means in practice. The days are mild, sixteen to twenty two degrees, sweater weather. The nights fall to ten, and in the coldest months, January and February, they drop close to freezing. Old people feel that first and feel it hardest. Add the barefoot bit, because every temple is shoes-off and the stone floors are cold enough to ache, and you have a real, small, avoidable risk to old joints and old chests.
So. One. pack one more warm layer than anyone thinks they need. A proper sweater, a shawl, socks that come off easy at temple doors. Two. keep the heart and blood pressure medicines in the day bag in the car, not in the suitcase in the boot of a car three switchbacks behind you. Three. the Kandy to Nuwara road turns for three hours and it makes people carsick who are never carsick. Front seat for the weak stomach, windows cracked, ginger sweets in the door pocket, and break the drive at Ramboda. Real altitude sickness is rare this low, so do not lose sleep over that. It is the cold, the barefoot stone and the winding road that get old people, and all three are beaten by a shawl, a pill bag and a slow driver.
The unglamorous stuff that decides the trip
Nobody writes this part, so i will.
When you travel with old parents, the trip is not made or broken by the temples. It is made or broken by shoes, toilets, food and rest. Get these four right and the rest is a bonus.
Shoes. Every temple is shoes-off, often onto cold or hot stone. Slip-ons, not laces. Nobody past seventy should be bending to tie and untie at five temple doors a day. Carry a pair of thick socks each so the stone does not shock the feet. Hand a coin to the chappal-minder and move on.
Toilets. This is the real itinerary, i am not joking. Old bladders do not negotiate with mountain roads. The rule that saved us: everyone goes before we leave the hotel, and again at every clean toilet we pass, whether or not anyone thinks they need to, because the next clean one might be two hours of switchbacks away. A good driver knows where they are. Ask him. This one habit removes half the stress of the day.
Food. Sri Lankan food is rice and curry and it is wonderful, but it can run hot and coconutty for a stomach used to home cooking. Tell the hotels and the driver straight that your parents want mild, simple, less chilli. Most kitchens oblige without a fuss. Curd, fruit and plain rice are everywhere. Keep biscuits and their own tea in the car for the long stretches. A warm cup at a cold viewpoint does more for old morale than any monument.
Rest. Two or three stops a day. A real sit-down lunch, not a bus sandwich. An afternoon lie-down back at the hotel. The trip is four unhurried days, not a checklist you sprint through. i keep saying it because it is the one thing every operator gets wrong and every family thanks you for later.
What to pack for old parents on this trip
Short list, learned the hard way. Pack for a hill station and a temple run at the same time, because that is what this is.
A proper sweater each, and a shawl on top. Nuwara Eliya after dark is cold, and old people feel it first.
Slip-on shoes, not laces. You take them off at every temple. Thick socks so the cold stone does not bite bare feet.
The medicine bag, in the day bag, never in the checked suitcase. Heart, blood pressure, sugar, whatever they take, and a few days extra in case a day runs long.
A small torch and a power bank. Temple corners are dark and old eyes want more light than yours.
Ginger sweets or nausea tablets for the winding hill road. In the car door, not buried in a bag.
Their own tea and a packet of biscuits. A warm familiar cup at a cold viewpoint fixes more moods than any monument.
A folding umbrella. The hills catch a shower most afternoons and it doubles as a walking prop on a slope.
Cash in small notes for the shoe-minders, the tips and the coconuts.
Nothing heavy, nothing clever. The trip rewards the person who thought about socks, not the person who packed a drone.
What the whole thing cost
Real numbers, for the group, rough, from mid 2026. Sri Lankan rupees unless i mark INR, and the rate sat near one Sri Lankan rupee to a little under a third of ours when we went, so treat the conversions as a ballpark, because it moves.
Car and driver, the full four-day loop: 90,000 LKR, about ₹30,000.
Hotel in Colombo: 40,000 LKR, about ₹11,500.
Hotel in Kandy: 14,000 LKR, about ₹4,000.
Hotel in Nuwara Eliya: 25,000 LKR, about ₹7,200.
Kandy cultural show: 3,000 LKR.
Hakgala garden tickets: 3,000 LKR.
Tips across the trip: 15,000 LKR.
Flights, India to Colombo and back: ₹150,000.
Food across the whole trip: 50,000 LKR.
Add it up and the trip came to somewhere around ₹2.3 lakh for the group. We did a lavish one to be honest.
The flights are the big lever by a mile, they swing hard with season and city, so book early and stay flexible on dates. The ground cost inside Sri Lanka, car plus three hotels plus entries, was about ₹48,000. For four days with a private car at the door and two parents kept comfortable, that is cheap, and i would pay it again without blinking.
What I got wrong
Two things, so you do not repeat them.
One. I built the first plan around Sigiriya. It took me a full day of staring at the itinerary to admit that a twelve hundred step climb has no business in a trip for people whose knees are done. i cut it and the trip got better the same afternoon. Plan theirs, not the brochure’s.
Two. I packed for a beach and summers. Sri Lanka lives in my head as sand and sun, and i carried that idea up to nineteen hundred metres, where it is a sweater and then a second sweater after dark. My parents felt it before i did. Pack for a hill station, because that is what the Ramayana trail becomes once you climb into it.
Neither was fatal. Both were avoidable, if only someone had told me first. Now someone has.
Ramayana trail Sri Lanka for old parents: the quick questions
Is the Ramayana trail doable for senior citizens?
Most of it, yes. Seetha Amman, the Ashok Vatika ground, Hakgala’s lower garden, Gayathri Peedam, Divurumpola and Kelaniya are short walks on flat ground. Skip the Sigiriya climb and the stream boulders at Sita Eliya and the trail is comfortable for old parents.
How many days do you need?
Four nights is comfortable. Colombo one, Kandy one, Nuwara Eliya two. Three works if you rush, and you should not rush old people.
Can old people climb Sigiriya?
It is about twelve hundred steep steps with no lift. Some seniors do it slow. Most will not, and its Ramayana link is thin, so skipping it costs you nothing. Stop at the Lion’s Feet halfway if you want a taste.
What is the best time to go?
For the hill country, the drier months from January to April. February is driest. April is lovely and busy for the Sinhala and Tamil New Year, so book ahead. Pack warm whenever you go, the nights are cold.
Do Indians need a visa for Sri Lanka?
Indians need an ETA. It has been free in some windows and paid in others. Check the official Sri Lanka ETA portal before you book, because the rule changes.
Is the trail only for Hindus?
No. The sites sit inside Hindu and Buddhist temples and one botanical garden. Divurumpola is a Buddhist temple. You come for the story and the place. Your parents supply the meaning.
How much does the Ramayana trail cost from India?
We spent about ₹2.3 lakh for the group across four days, flights included. The ground cost inside Sri Lanka, private car plus three hotels plus entries, was about ₹48,000. Flights are the swing factor.
That is the trail, ladies and gents. Not the coach-and-forty version. The version that gets two old people to the places they watched on a flickering TV forty years ago, with their knees intact, the meds in the right bag, and a shawl each against the hill cold.
If you are planning it for your own parents and you want the exact hotels, the driver’s number, or a second opinion on your itinerary, mail me on sg@c4e.in. i will send you what worked. And if you have done this yourself, tell me what i missed, because i am sure i missed something.